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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I don't like the way my boyfriend didn't understand how much trouble I went to for him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - am I stupid to be upset about this? So yesterday my boyfriend and I celebrated our Valentines day. I spent most of my paycheck to make it happen. As well as about 4 hours of my day preparing it. I made him a romantic Italian dinner. ...

I'm sick of waiting for him! Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for a year we agreed to get married in july this year but he asked me to extend our time to december so we did. Last night i asked him if we still getting married in december and he said he needed more time as he is having ...

How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression? My lover wont see a doctor... but it has affected our relationship. I hardly see him now... he says he cant face anyone and that he's no company... this has been going on for months. What ...

Boyfriend set up business against me... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have a bit of a stange problem... and I really want advice as my friends and family have made their points very clear. My boyfriend and I split up approx 5 months ago and when we did.. he set up an entertainments business. The problem is I run on...

I don't want myself to be hurt badly. What do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I'm really in need of your advice here! I've asked 7-8 questions regarding my relationship with her, but i'm not getting responses from you guys. I fall in love with my closest friend lets say A.. Closest among all, and now my best friend and gf. ...

I know I'm in love but how do I know if he is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and we both say that we love each other and we seem to be in appearances but I keep getting this gut feeling that he doesn't want me to be anywhere near him. I know I'm so in love with him and the ...

My LDR boyfriend has a case of cold feet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been involved in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now. We are literally on the other side of the world from each other, but considering the crazy distance we were able to see each other every 3 to 4 months on average. Now he is ...

My fiance's parents aren't too thrilled about our announcement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I proposed to my same sex partner a while ago and she said yes. We are very excited and happy. I told my family who were really pleased and even more excited for us.We told my partners parents and they were not that pleased. Her mother cried( not ...

We're married now but I still get so angry even when I hear her ex's name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - I think I need some professional help. But I'm embarrassed to admit it. Or is what I'm going through normal? To summerize, in 2009 I had been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. She graduated college and took a 2 week vacation to visit her parent...

My boyfriend's obsession with young lap dancers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend goes to lap dancers clubs often with his mates. He says he goes there for the girls. I told him I do not like it that he pays these women, I do not like him going there, as I see it as his way of ogling young women in nudity, he...

Should I listen to the Beatles and "Let it Be"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4829 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Why did she apologize for leaving me to see her friend? This girl and I were hanging around yesterday and well I knew she was going to leave me to meet up with a friend afterwards. So she left quickly and we both said good bye and well it didn't b...

I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4113 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. We have known each other for 8 years on and off. I had a crush on him when I was 12. We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was ...

Do want help and advice, but not pity. But how do I better handle my battle with being obsessive and narcissistic ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hello i am an obsessive co-dependent in love with a narcissistic. I am a kind loving person but try to also control everything.(so no one gets hurt) Anyway my question to everyone is how can i stop letting him hurt me? He couldn't care less whil...

What do I need to do to be accepted as a friend by this girl? She seems super resistant to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's circle of friends includes 3 other guys, and just 1 girl. I get along fantastically with all of the guys, however, the girl seems resistant to accept me, or be my friend. I get the feeling that she's jealous of me because she feel...

My over protective childhood makes me feel like a teen, not 23. what do I need to do to grow up and face the world as it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I've grown up being sheltered from the big bad world, and it's biting me back right now. My parents were always about the whole true love deal and only getting into a relationship when you thought it could be long term/forever. They always want...

I'm having problems with my Mum. How can I get her to listen to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Lately my mum and me have been getting into a lot of arguments and although when she is in a good mood she is like a best friend, when she is in a bad mood she is being horrible. My sister and I have realized that she always thinks she is righ...

Am I too demanding? Or is he too insensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. It’s one that I had to keep secret from my family and relatives due to cultural barriers. We were committed to making this work. Although it was extremely difficult for both of us, I finally managed to buil...

Revival tips needed please? I want to know how to improve my LDR with my boyfriend since he's become boring

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship since four years ago. my boyfriend is really nice and sweet but the problem is he doesn't share anything with me.. while on the other hand,i give him all the tiniest of detail.. i don't know why but his friends ...

How can I rake up the courage to end this relationship with this very over sensitive controlling guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I apologize in advance if this gets long. I have a feeling I may start to vent. I've had bad relationships in the past. I seem to keep going after the same people, though, I don't realize it until it's months in and their true selves start shi...

We hardly communicate effectively. He's sensitive. How do I improve our communication?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I am in a new relationship after the death of my husband in 2007. How do I deal with an emotionally sensitive person? we hardly communicate effectively. I don't know how to handle this. ...

Did he have an affair and can we ever get past it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Did my husband have an affair? I have been married for 17 years this year.Our sex life for the last 10 years had been almost non existant. It all came to a head about 2 years ago. My husband was being flirty with a work colleague and going out wi...

She thinks she can still have all the care and attention from me but wont have to love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - i need help please...long story short,there is this girl(my second cousin to be precise) with whom i came close to for a while...we shared everythng, talked day and night, laughed at the world etc. she was sensible and understanding, but even more ...

She broke up with me because she said I didn't make her 1st priority

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - So, me and my bf broke up and now we are trying to get back together. she started to date her Bestfriend knowing she still loved me. The thing is the reason she broke up with me was because she says that she is not my first priority in life. That im ...

Girlfriend and I are always arguing about my son!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (M) - Allways end up arguing with my gf about my son. It's not that she doesn't want me to see him, it's more the fact that I want us all to get along togeather. We meet about 4 years ago I lived alone my son ame to visit me every other weekend. Then I m...

Why does he always have to be an idiot? I want him to feel guilty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Wow, I just read most of these responses to columns about boyfriends who forget their girl's birthdays. I have to admit, my boyfriend isn't that much of an asshole. I guess reading these responses makes me feel better about my situation. It's 4:12...

I feel trapped but if he harmed himself I would feel guilty for the rest of my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I've asked a question similar to this a while back, but didn't get a response and some new stuff has come up... so here I go again. And thanks ahead of time to those that read What do u think? What would you do if this was you? I have been wit...

My BF left after having sex and messaged me..."I am not attracted to you anymore" ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hello all. As I sit here writing this I feel pain, hurt, im emotional and a billion other things. Me and my boyfriend of 4 years had sex like 1 hour ago. It seemed to being going good until I got ontop of him and I felt like he was just sitting...

After having led me on with the promise of a life together, he suddenly decides to bail out. Should I tell his wife about the whole sham?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Where to start. I fell in love with a married man. He told me that he was on his way out of his marriage. He gave me horror stories about his wife. 8, 9, 10 months go by and he and I are more in love than I've ever been with anyone and I'm not ...

How do I handle a threatening group at school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Okay so there's this girl in my school who's like really ghetto. And she has her own "posse" but so do i and i'm the leader of mine except i'm not ghetto at all. In fact the ghetto girl calls me "blonde" but i have brown hair and i'm part african. ...

How can I forgive him for all the hurt he has caused me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Well, I posted a question yesterday, but I didn't give many details, so I shall give them now. Three and a half years ago, my boyfriend and I started dating. We were both 17 then and we had been each others firsts. We've always been happy toget...