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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend feels insecure that he feels so secure in our relationship

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4 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half told me that he feels insecure that he is so secure in our relationship. He freaked out because he thought that I was going to be the one he married and that was it (we're really young and def not looking to get ...

My cheating ex will not leave me alone but we also have kids together.

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4 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupid ive been dating this dude for almost 5yrs and we have 2 kids together and he was my first and he cheated on me 6times and he got caught this last time and he told me he wants to be with her and two weeks after that happened he asked me to ...

I'm not happy with the constant break ups

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4 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship off an on for the most part of 4 years. We are 22 and 23. He was in a bad car accident which has left him with am arm the dose not completely straighten. I was not with him during the accident ...

My boyfriend is annoying me and making me wonder if I should stay. What do you think?

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4 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and he's really beginning to annoy me. Background info: I moved in with him after my mother threw me out of the house, cut me off and stopped speaking to me. There are some little things, ...

I feel so insecure in my relationship..

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4 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now.These days im going through really hard times in my life and i always ask my guy to be there for me. He goes to work full time, come home study and talk with me on the ...

3 months after breaking up, I sent my ex a friendly email. How do you think she took it?

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4 February 2011 (M) - So my Ex and I split up about 3 months ago. Things didn't end well between us. She always accused me of cheating which wasn't true. Finally, I caught her on an online dating site and called her on it. We then split up. After a week, I tried to work ...

Me and my boyfriend wish to remain neutral in this situation!

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4 February 2011 (F) - hi! I'm a little stuck because my bf's best mate (lets call him J) and my best mate (lets call her K) were going out but then K broke-up with J and know I'm in the middle because each time I wanna talk with my bf-J will be there and J just will not ...

Is he trying to tell me to date others, or does he want me to tell him there is no one else???

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4 February 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this man since November and we were having a talk about relationships, etc. He is going through a lot with his last relationship, we both are really, and are enjoying our time together. So, for the past two days, we have been tal...

My parents told me the girl I'm dating isn't socioeconomically acceptable!

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4 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and i really love my girlfriend so2 much...however, my parents don't approve of this girl.. they consider her as not being of the same level socioeconomically....i don't care what her parents work as, or what type of house she ...

After 5 years, my boyfriend says he loves me but isn't in love with me?

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4 February 2011 (F) - Have been going out with my bf for 5 years and while he says he loves me he is not "in love with me!!!" I consider this to be an insult after all this time and praps I should just end it! I think I deserve better! Please advise as I do love him to ...

My boyfriend's son makes me jealous and plays us all against each other!

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4 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and from day one his (now 5 year old) son has lived with us. I really like his son, he is a good kid and pretty well behaved, but often I am overwhelmed with jealousy and I want the weekends to come ...

Four girls and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

4 February 2011 (M) - I do love a girl (A) and she loves me too.And we're now in long distance relationship since three months.. But one thing is that she's in relationship with next guy S too.. But she's in love with me and we've been like this since seven months.. And ...

Sex is virtually nonexistent in our relationship!

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4 February 2011 (M) - I have been with this girl for 4 years. It was wild at first but then after the first 2 years it slowly started going the other way. For the last 2 years we have grown apart and hardly see each other, once a week, or twice if I'm lucky, and its ...

My online lover said if I took the job that would be the end of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, So here's the story: I met this guy online a year ago and it started off with a friendship. He was a bit loner and so opened up to me when we first met. He talked about his bad childhood, his life, and even his dreams about meeting...

Is there anything wrong with me for wanting to work things out with my abusive boyfriend?

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4 February 2011 (F) - My bf of 2 years has become more emotionally abusive lately. Everytime i try more to be nice to him, he pulls off more, but still i couldnt hate him at all. I know i shouldnt take this abuse anymore but i couldnt leave him either. I really wan...

Should I indulge his unique fantasy?

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4 February 2011 (F) - I recently discovered a whole new aspect to my fiancée, I mean, I knew he dabbled once, but several weeks ago, I discovered photos of him dressed as a woman. He responded to an ad online to be "transformed" and went atleast 9 times over the past two ...

My boyfriend admitted to emailing another girl sending her his phone number, but nothing came off it. Should I give him another chance?

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4 February 2011 (F) - I need advice.. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and about a month ago I found that he had emailed another girl sending her his phone number. I confronted him about it. After a long talk and a lot of tears, he says t...

Its so hard to break up with someone when you don't have the power to stay away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 and a half years. We always planned to move in together this year but things just never seemed to favour that plan, so as it is we see each other once or twice a week. The first year was pretty good,...

He Left and Didnt Say Goodbye.

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4 February 2011 (F) - I live across the street from this cute guy, I never thought anything would ever come out of it. We have been speaking since August, and for the last two weeks we have been hanging out constantly. From what I know he was hitting on me, flirting with ...

Is there any way I can learn to open up of my own accord?

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4 February 2011 (F) - The other night my boyfriend said he sometimes gets upset because I'm not very good at saying what I feel about things. He gave the example of us moving in together - we've been talking about it a lot lately but he said everytime he asks me about ...

I need advice on how to break off with my married lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - MOD NOTE: Aunts/Uncles PLEASE BE RESPECTFUL IN YOUR ANSWERS!!! I am writing to ask a question in hopes to get answers that will be helpful and constructive, not judgemental and deconstructive. I unfourtantely got involved with a married but " separa...

Dating a guy with the same name as my ex is leading to trouble

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex of 1 and a half years in July 2010 and though we have talked a few times since then, in general I have moved on and started dating again. The problem is that the guy that I am dating (we have been seeing each other for a...

Dating 6 months and things are getting weirder and weirder

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

4 February 2011 (F) - i have been seeing a guy for 6 months and things are getting weirder and more confusing everyday! at first he begged me to be with him and i told him i didn't think either of us were ready yet but he insisted and persisted and i finally gave in. so ...

Sleeping with a guy who doesn't make it clear what he wants. I'm so confused!

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4 February 2011 (F) - hey guys. urgh, sorry this is long, but please explain this! i slept with a guy ive known for a few years now (we'll call him mike), we went to school together. we were flirting for weeks and bada bing bada boom.. you get the rest. anyway i asked ...

My fiance is chatting with his ex girlfriend 3-5 nights a week!

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4 February 2011 (F) - Hi My Fiance and I been together for 8 yrs, Been living together in the house we bought for 4 yrs now. We are having a few issues, which I hope we can work out. 4 weeks now he has been chatting with an old girlfriend on the computer in front of me, ...

I don't want to continue sleeping with him if he's not that into me!

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4 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating someone for 7 weeks, we are both 27 and have been sleeping together for 4 weeks. (it was a bit soon i know) We both work 10 hour days, 5 days per week. My question is, he seems too casual and i wonder if its a case of "he's just ...