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Archived questions from: 7 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What should I do about my marriage?... I love him but I hate him at the same time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I dont know if i should stay with my husband. We have been together for 6 years..married 4. He has been pretty horrible to me through our relationship. Calling me names, telling me i dont do anything, and controlling. Things got really out of ha...

I reached a point of not caring, does that mean that her past doesn't really matter or is something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - (Really sorry about the long post, but it should set the mood) Hi guys, I've been reading this site for a while now and I think I should say what's on my mind. Im 25 (had 3 partners in 7 months before her) and my girl is 28 (she had 14 in 6 year...

Why does my husband lie about my age to everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi, My husband and I are very far apart in age. He is 15 years my senor. I am 30 and he is 45. We are very happy together and are going to have a baby now. I've never had a problem with his age and we are quite compatible. But, everyt...

I want to run away I've had enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - i wont to run away i have had enought of life i don't know y i feel like this i have 4 kids and scared i don't know y i am feeling this way is there somethimg wrong with me ...

I don't want a static relationship! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - After dating my bf for over two years it has all become static and will be now for 3 years to come because of his job. He won't live with me until then and nothing else can progress. I don't want a static relationship. What do I do?...

I love him and I don't want to lose him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I am 23 year old girl and i really need advice on my life situation. in shorter terms - 4years ago i had a beautiful daughter to the man i once loved we sadly lost our daughter to heart disease and it left us devastated it slowly teared us apart and ...

Pain from a past betrayl getting in the way of a good relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I should have moved on by now. How can I make the pain go away? I was in a relationship with a man who lied to me about being married. We lasted a year and a half and not only fooled me, he fooled my family, my son, my friends, he hurt us all. I t...

My trust issues are gettting in the way of our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone i realli need some advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. Im 23year old girl. Recently i have been very jelous and my feelings have been all over the place i have constantly been accusing him of cheating on me with a girl at his ...

I'm sick of all her lies! Am I right to wait until April to officially end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - My girlfriend of about a year and half recently broke up with me and I am so sad. I honestly believe that she was my first love and she was the love of my life. It was more than a physical attraction, I had a deep emotional and attachment to her. ...

He's hot then cold, he's Jekyll then Hyde

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Sorry in advance for this long question. But there is a lot to my story. Just over a year ago, I met my boyfriend (who is 5 years older) we were both blown away, not just by how physically attracted we were to each other but also how well we got ...

How to help my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I scared my friend and made her cry because I yelled at her . What should I say to her ? She is my best friend and I love her and I didn't mean to yell at her but she made me mad. ...

How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he sai...

He spent the night, but now thinks he rushed things? What does he mean by all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - okay everyone i need a little help with something that i dont understand. okay so my boyfriend and i broke up for two weeks because he said he wasnt happy but then he would try his best to fix things and everything he tried alot to get us back tog...

Should I be concerned after a bad proposal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 20months. I have a long history with him. We were friends before we dated for about 8yrs. I love him very much and have been wanting him to ask me to marry him. He actually proposed to me two days ago. It definite...

Does he not trust me because of what he is possibly doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi, thanks for reading, and helping. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years. There's always been "trust" issues on his behalf. I've told him countless times trust is vital in a healthy relationship. To give some history he's been...

My girlfriend doesn't trust me... I can't even go for a beer with friends!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys i need some advice. I have been with my gf for about 3 years now. We have a 2 year old together. Life is tough. We used to fight ALOT! I used to have to call my mom and dad and tell them to come over to our place and referee it it got so b...

He was shocked that I would end it, saying we are meant to be together. Why wouldn't he end it with her?

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7 February 2011 (F) - Hey people :) I just need a bit of help to not be so confused really :( I met a guy from Germany a year ago (im from the u.k). he had previously lived in the U.S.A for 5 years for University.I met him and things were casual at first, but then sta...

I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Lo...

I am going to confront him... right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this man since Nov and I have been thinking for a while now he is a player and that things are not adding up. I only seem him on the weekdays after 8 pm. We never go out on any dates. We sit at his place and watch movies etc. ...

Help! In love with a married man and he doesn't love me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi all. I could really use your help! I have been involved in an emotional affair (never any physical contact) with a married man. I am also married. We both have young children. This has been ongoing since last spring. We would see each other a...

My daughter is causing me so much stress just now...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hello, I posted on here recently regarding problem with my daughter and her BF who is here 2/3 nights a week. I got some really helpful answers regarding him paying his way. However since that time, another serious problem has happened and I ...

I want to forget my Sister as she is taking me for granted. I miss her badly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - Well... it started when I was in 11th Standard. I had a few friends but because of some differences between us, I had to leave them. I had lost faith in friends. Somewhere I heard that your family persons are your best friends. I looked for some att...

While on a break, my BF met his ex, she straddled him and exposed her breasts! Now he's unsure about us together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend asked for a break to clear his head.. on the break he told me he went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he ...

Not able to be in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - Is it possable to not be able to fall in love when i go out with friends they all look at girls and say how hot they think they are but when i look i just see another person no diffrent from the rest i have never seen a girl or guy that i have had ...

What should I write to my wife's ex to make him leave her alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - after 25 yrs of being with my wife,an ex has re-entered her life by text and email.At first my wife was open about this.He is married and lives in australia.It soon became obvious by her changing behavior,( hidden new phone and secret number,getting ...

I'm not sure I can wait any longer...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Just would like to get a male's perspective on this... though women feel free to share the advice =) I have been with my guy going on 5 years. Its a definite pull push kinda thing. He gets close... he pulls WAAAy back then I kinda start moving on ...

I've had enough of her childish behavior!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 20 months (1 year, 8 months) and our relationship has really been going down the crapper lately. When something doesn't go her way, like say she was wrong in a discussion/argument, she crosses her arms...

Should I keep my ex in my life as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of four months broke off with me 2 months ago. We work in the same company but different divisions. It's a large company and we don't have to see each other everyday. We have no work relations too. But we do hang out in the same ...

Room mate refused to help clean up when moving!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Interacting with your housemate is a kind of relationship, right? My housemate and I are moving out. So we have to clean the place up thoroughly to get our bond money back. He's been living there for 10 months and I've been there just under 2 yea...

Why can't I move on? How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - So, me and this guy have had a "thing" for over a year now. Last July i told him i was falling in love with him. I know it was strong to say, but i had to tell him. He didn't say anything. We kept our "thing" going after i told him. Its still going ...

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final ...

My boyfriend always think I'm flirting and can not accept that I am bisexual

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I'm female and I am bisexual. My boyfriend knows it! I don't deny it and I never will. He hates the fact that I am and he even told me so. I make it clear to him as much as I can that I love him and no one else. However, everytime we are with my f...

Boyfriend says he doesn't know why this dating website sends him emails

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi all! Some of you posters have been really helpful with my last situation... so I'm hoping you can help me with this one! I recently found e-mails (for updates, it seems) from Lavalife in my boyfriend's inbox. Normally that kind of stuff wouldn'...

Retroactive Jealousy An Opposite View Point

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I have read the articles on Retroactive Jealousy with great interest. I am the one that caused RJ in my lover, I have had less sexual partners than him but I have more sexual experiences. I am not proud of the things I have done and I am trying to ...

Just experienced heartbreak with 20 yrs older man...going through difficult time...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - 15 months ago, I met with this man casually in a business meeting (he was newly joined the company and became the major contact since our 1st meeting)...he started to SMS me everyday, and we grew closer to each other. Since he is 20 years older, I ...

Am I needy or is my boyfriend a prick?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I need help deciding whether my anger at my boyfriend is justified. I live in Florida. He lives in Texas. I go visit him about once a month. In November he and I agreed that next weekend, Feb. 11 and 12, I would visit. I bought the plane ticket...

My girlfriend became a prostitute during our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend became a prostitute during our relationship. I knew about it but did nothing as she said she was feeling depressed and this helped. She made me feel bad about asking her to quit. I absolutely hated it. Its still eating me up inside ...

Should I leave him? He makes me more sad than happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I have a boyrfriend, we have been togather for almost 2 years. i dont know what to do anymore, weve been fighting for about 3 months straight about a lot of stuff. first he ignored me, and i bitched about it alot. we broke up twice in the same 2 ...

What can I do to motivate my husband to help us improve our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone. so i have a question and issue, and looking on the internet, there are tons of questions and answers about this, but mine is slightly different. my husband and i have been married for 4 years. we have been through a lot together, bo...

What did I do wrong? He's playing happy families. But not with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Okay here I go... Please understand I am judging only my ex and his mistress in this, but I am trying to make sense of this all. I found out my (now ex) was cheating on me (for 4 1/2 months, confirmed by her). He ended up transferring back and moved ...