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female
age
30-35,
*ongy
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and we both say that we love each other and we seem to be in appearances but I keep getting this gut feeling that he doesn't want me to be anywhere near him. I know I'm so in love with him and the thought of losing him kills me. I'm trying to do everything right like not smothering him or doing things that he asks me too. He seems so wonderful but it's the day before Valentine's Day, our first V Day, and he hasn't even gotten me anything or knows what he wants to get me. I'm so upset I just don't understand. If he really loves me wouldn't he have this day already planned out? I overheard him talking to his roommate about where to buy flowers. Can you believe it 2 days before V Day and he is going to go in search of flowers? Like there will be ANYTHING now. I've even bought him his already. I'm just so confused he seemed so perfect for me in everyway but for some reason I feel like he doesn't know I'm here.
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (14 February 2011):
 If this guy really loves you, his actions will speak louder than words. That said, most guys don't really dig Valentine's Day. It's like how a wedding is mostly for the bride. Guys don't like to feel pressured to spend money. Just feel privileged you have a good guy, that's willing to do sweet things for you and be there for you went you need a good cuddle.
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