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Archived questions from: 25 August, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My wife says that sex with me grosses her out. Can that change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - I am 38 and my wife is 41. We do not have sex anymore and have not for at least a decade. She says that sex with me grosses her out. She says that the idea of sex itself does not gross her out, and she fantasizes about sex with other men sometimes, ...

Am I just his text buddy who he occasionaly sees when it suits him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Hi everyone this guy who I very occasionally have sex with ignores my texts and only texts me when he feels like it he says he forgets but I know that's not true anyway I got fed up with it when I found out he had gone on holiday and hadn't even...

Why do I push guys away? I find one fault and look for more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I have a real problem staying in a relationship. I'm 31 years old and have had lots of short relationships. I meet a guy who im really crazy about and within a couple of months im bored. The guys i have been with have been totally different from...

He has A Girlfriend. Why doesn't he see what happened was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - I used to be in a sort of "friends with benefits" with a guy i know who lives miles away from me. We knew each other from school and got back in touch over Facebook. It lasted a while then we didn't see each other for a few months and during that ...

Alarm bells are ringing. Is he making money or gambling away our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - just wanted to get people's opion on this to see if I am being completely irrational or whether I am right in asking my boyfriend not to gamble anymore... my boyfriend recently started "making money" on gambling websites. he uses free introductor...

Can she change or has she got used to making fun of me being "middle" class?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - For the last three years , I have been in a relationship with girl who is from extremely rich family whereas I am from middle class family with good educational background but not having decent job matching my qualification . Her parents are down...

I don't get it! Am I being unreasonable? He excludes me from parts of his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Ive just ended my relationship with my boyfriend because we want different things but now im doubting my decision! Weve been together nearly a yr her 30 im 28 I have a daughter and he has a son. The thing is he doesnt want no more children and I do...

Should I try for one more date with this guy? even though hé's been ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Ok so A guy who I was texting and meeting up with stopped texting me last week after he stood me up. now last night as I was with a few friends watching a film he texts me... I texted him back immaturey like "well " and " fine " he then texted me ...

He never texts and expects me to chase him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - im really getting fed up of this guy i know. he knows i like him but i feel like his nurse maid. if he ever has problems im there. if hes ever financially stuck im there yet hes aware i like him but doesnt treat me in a great way. he goes on all ...

Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something ...

What's wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriends 16 soon, he wants to have sex but I'm not sure I do, he's not a virgin but I am! He always gets drunk and high, it dosent bother me usually but recently he feels me up and sticks his hands down my pants and top in front of ...

We only see each other once a week, but she calls me clingy. I buy her everything, but she says I never take care of her. Is she using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past two weeks. She keeps telling me im clingy, and she needs space, and i only see her once a week, so i dont understand how im being clingy. another thing iv noticed is i pay for everything. i pay ...

He's called me his ex's name twice, is he really over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4633 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Hello, I would like it if someone could help me out here. Okay, In 2 weeks, I would have been going out with my bf for a year:) We are both each others 2nd serious relationship. his ex, made him miserable - always cheated on him and broke ...

Should I just quit my job to move to be with him? Or wait until February?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - Had this friend for several years, always liked him, then last June we just hit it off and said we loved each other. We are made for each oter. We have the same interests, the same view on life, we have so much fun together... it's just, you know, ...

Boyfriend never initiates contact or asks me out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in my late 20s and my boyfriend in his early 30s.. I've been seeing him for 3 months now. He is such an affectionate, loving.. but one problem is, he rarely initiates contact, and NEVER asks me out. I always contact him, and always ask him ...

He wont say how he feels because he is afraid of me kicking him out! Plus I'm fed up of feeling like his mom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - hello everyone, im having a problem with my boyfriend whom lives with me. we have been together for years and years since and we are our very early twenty's. and this is the first place we have both lived other than home... we live in my moms rental ...

My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real a...

What should I say to my sister in law's niece, and what should I do about the party?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I have a problem. I was supposed to be going to a party this weekend for my sister in law's dad's birthday. My sister in law and my brother didn't invite me. My sister in law's niece did, although, my sister in law sent everyone a message on ...

How do I get over it and not keep telling myself how foolish I was?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am in the process of ending my 2 year relationship. The main issues were alcohol abuse and money. The soon to be ex boyfriend still owes me money. When he phoned last week he cut short the call because his son (previous marriage) had called him. ...

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the...

I don't like my daughter calling her dad's girlfriend "mom"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am going through a divorce and should be finalize this month. My ex has been living with his girlfriend and her two kids for a year now. We have joint custody of our 7 year old little girl. My question is this. My daughter told me that when she...

How can I find out if my BF really is cheating me with this other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Not really not sure how to start, I have my boyfriend of 8 months, well, recently I started suspicious that he might be having an online relationship. Hos did this happenn? well, a few months ago, he mentioned in front of everybody that this ...

I don't know if I'm overreacting, but this lack of commmunication is really getting to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Okay, so I am in college and my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now and are very happily in love. We've been through quite a lot together that has strengthened our relationship and really given us a good foundation.We have spoken ...