A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone this guy who I very occasionally have sex with ignores my texts and only texts me when he feels like it he says he forgets but I know that's not true anyway I got fed up with it when I found out he had gone on holiday and hadn't even bothered to tell me when I thought we were friends? so I text him this: "seeing as you keep ignoring me I won't text you again. just wanted to see how you were take care x" was I wrong to do this as we have not spoken since I thought he may of text back I didn't text him loads just three texts thanks for your answers in advance x
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reader, Mariab +, writes (26 August 2011):
 Your answer is in your question dear..."ignores my texts and only texts me when he feels like it", "gone on holiday and hadn't even bothered to tell me","you keep ignoring me"... what does this tell you? The fact that you keep tecting him EVEN when he ignores you... shows that he is controlling the situation and you NEED him more that he needs you. To shift the balance of power... stop all communication and IF he contacts you again... IGNORE him. In my eyes... he is best left alone.. find another. Good luck xx
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