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female
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30-35,
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writes:Okay, so I am in college and my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now and are very happily in love. We've been through quite a lot together that has strengthened our relationship and really given us a good foundation.We have spoken about having a more serious future together and he has expressed deep feelings for wanting marriage even. Recently, we both started working and classes again. Although we are at the same campus we only see each other for about 5 minutes in between classes, and we hardly talk throughout the day and night. We went from spending a select amount of time together and him always being on top of wanting to see me to him showing very little interest.I don't know if I'm overreacting, but this lack of commmunication is really getting to me. I know he still cares, and he knows how important simply talking is to me. Am I overreacting? Is there anything I can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): yes I think you're overreacting. you've already mutually expressed plans for the future. so the relationship is "secure", is it not? why then, is there this need for constant contact? if this only started happening when classes started again, well then that's only been what, a couple weeks? too soon to declare it a 'problem', I think. you need to relax.
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