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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I love my girlfriend but she makes no effort with sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2,5 years now (we are both in our early 20s). We see each other about 2-3 times a month. Everything is great (aside from the long distance part and the fact that this won't be changing anytime ...

They have children, I'm still at College. Are my friends jealous of me or are we growing apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - I've known my best friends since high school and we have always been there for each other, through thick and thin. Even in high school my friends would act funny towards me, sometimes. I am the skinnest out of my friends and unlike them, I have alwa...

I dumped my boyfriend but he took me back. Is our relationship damaged?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - I finally left my husband after 26 years of marriage. I have been separated now for eight months and I began dating recently and met a man I get along with very well. However I think that the intimacy we shared has uprooted feelings about my ...

My feelings have changed and sometimes I don't even want to be around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - So...this is a tough one. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a great relationship, minus a few ups and downs that everyone is sure to go through. Recently my feelings towards him have changed. At times things are complete...

Why are my friends being so rude and reading my messages to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I recently got an iPhone and my friends have been playing with the games I downloaded. I have no qualms about lending my phone for my friends to play but 2 of them have conveniently went to my Whatsapp to read messages between ...

Why does my husband flirt with everybody but me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Why does my husband flirt with everyone but me? He seems happy when he's with me. We laugh and cut up and have so much fun together. But the other girls get the "sweetie" and and the touches and stuff. Is he just a really flirty guy? I am a few days ...

Should I keep on with this relationship or should I quietly back down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - So i have been with this guy for almost a year. problem is that he has been in jail for the past 5 months. i truly miss him and with every phone call, letter, card, and email i get from him, its like i fall more in love with him! in every thing i ...

I finally worked up the courage to tell him I loved him, but he didnt say it back. Is this something that will come in time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - I have started seein this guy for the past five months, before he has told me he loved me when there has been drink involved, although I had never said it back. When I finally plucked up the courage to tell him, he didn say it back. He told me he ...

We never discussed being FWB, I wanted to be his girlfriend! And now to make things worse he isnt even replying to my texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - hi everyone this is my problem so i met ths man at the beginning of the year we seemed to be together as a proper couple then it just turned into sex every 3 or 4 weeks we hadnt discussed being fwb as i actually wanted to be with him as his ...

Advice to be less controlling with my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Hi all! I have a problem, I am quite needy and I find that this affects my relationships as I can become quite controlling. Let me explain…I have just spent a chunk of time with my partner. he wants some space now to spend time with his friends. I ...

My ex is pregnant by another man! How should I feel?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - I barely every get on these forums, and I dont think I ever posted a question, but I have one now. I'm a 21 year old male, and I go to college in Philadelphia. My ex-girlfriend and I dated for 4.5 years until she broke up with me at the end of Ma...

How do I let her know how much she hurts my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - i met this girl about 4 months ago and we have been friends since then.we told each other about ourselves,and stuff,she seemed friendly.suddenly i started noticing some kind of behaviour from her.anytime we met,she gives me a quick wave and looks ...

She cant look at me because of my interest in S&M and older women, but I would happily give that up if she stayed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for over a year and a half. We have a 6 month old boy who is the world to the both of us. This is going to be a long post if you can bear it out. It started a while back ago, from my youth I have always loved porn ...

My depressed bf told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore...and I'm 15-weeks pregnant with his baby!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

16 August 2011 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend told me today he doesn't know how to love anymore, he's so depressed ..which is very scary because I'm 15 weeks preg. But idk what to do...we both still live with our parents but he doesn't work cuz he has back problems on account ...

My gf has only had black friends, wants to adopt black kids, and generally loves black people...and I am feeling insecure because I am white.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

16 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a month. We are both 22 years old and have already talked about what we want out of a relationship. She has made it clear she has a passion for black people. She wants to have a black baby either by ...