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writes:my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop being paranoid, we've been together for about 7 months now and i really don't want to be paranoid because i really like him and want to trust him. how do i stop this? am i right to be slightly paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): It's perfectly human for you to feel uncomfortable in this situation. It entirely depends on him whether you have a reason to be paranoid; some guys would cheat in this situation whereas others would have put the past behind him and just see her as a friend.
If you're boyfriend is comfortable with you meeting her then I should imagine he doesn't see her as anything other than another friend, if you want to talk to him about it I would wait until you've met her then you can guage how they interact with eachother, then decide whether she's bad news.
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reader, raluf  +, writes (20 May 2010):
girl you must open your eyes and listen to your heart, if you feel that it does not make you happy, then he must not go stay there,or to save yourself just tell him thaht you want to cool it off for a while
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I understand why you may be worried but relationships are built on trust so you will have to trust him and if you are meant to be togther then he will not be unfaithful, if he does cheat with this girl he is not worth your time, and stopping him from going to this girls house would not stopping cheat if that is the type of man he is, this is a good opportunity to see who he will behave. if he is faithful you will know that he is worth your time. =]
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