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writes:I have dated a man twice in three weeks. Because his 17 and 19 year old sons live with him, he says he is really only available to see me after 8 pm weeknights and, so far, has not been available on weekends. He called tonight and left a message saying he didn't know what we could do Friday night except to go eat, did I have any ideas? I know he's not married. That's not my concern. I'm concerned that I am wasting my time with a man who is really not that interested in me. He won't give up dinner time with older teenaged sons. The fact he can't think of anything to do on Friday also tells me that I'm not of much interest to him. His phone call was only his second in the entire time we've known each other. I'm of the impression that if a man is interested in a woman, he will want to talk to her and be with her more than he seems to want to talk and be with me. It's certainly making me lose interest in him.Am I wrong guys? Reply to this Question
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 Well he does'nt need a babysitter no more does he? Kids that age can get their own dinner once in a while,and you can set up a dinner date with him. Have you tried explaining this to him, that you need to be taken out on dates?
If he finds excuses, then MOVE ON and find a guy who is willing to court you properly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): I think that there is something up with that. I'm 19 and if my Mom and Dad want to go out, I'm more then capable to feed myself. Maybe he's dating someone else, or maybe he's scared that it might turn into something very serious! On that note, I'm 50/50 with what you say.
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