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writes:I'm so confused. I have a friend that I was once intimately involved with, however that aspect of our realtionship ended months ago and we still continue to be online friends. We see each other on Messenger everyday but he rarely speaks to me. He only talks to me if he needs me to do something for him. Most of the time he ignores me when I try to message him and say "hi". It's difficult because I still have feelings for him although I know he doesn't for me. I feel like I'm being used and I'm just not sure how to handle the situation. Any idea what I can do without looking like I'm overreacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Move Ahead... !!
There are 4 Billion Guys on planet Earth... Why do we keep running behind people who dont care...? With me and my EGO, i won't look at someone who does not respond to my Hello... ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): He obviously does not feel the same way about you. If he did, he would not ignore you. and yes he is using you, those gut feelings are never wrong.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Hi there,
I think you are just going to have to put this one in the "oh well never mind" basket.
Men can be very uncommunicative with girls they have been intimate with and are no longer seeing.
Personally if I was in his situation I wouldnt be snubbing you like this , but if you had dumped me I probably wouldnt be terribly interested in maintaing regular contact as it would just be pulling those heartstrings in all the wrong directions.
But if you broke up amicably then he is just being a bit rude towards you, so as I said you will just have to cut your losses and put it down to experience.
sorry, good luck.
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