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Why do I keep trying to cause conflict with my boyfriend?

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Question - (23 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

finally found decent boyfriend who is everything i want..so why do i keep trying to cause conflict between us for no reason?

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2007):

The way he will see it is that you may be wanting to get rid of him. If he picks up on it he will eventually leave and find someone who is easier to get on with. If you do not want this to happen then just stop doing this to him. Try edifying him, let himn know how much you love him and try a more positive approach altogether.

If you have differances do not make a big thing about them but make light of them so they seem less important.

Concerntrate on what you have and stop trying to throw it away if it is this good.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007):

You need to give some more information. No one can answer your question.

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A female reader, Kat18 United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2007):

Kat18 agony aunthhmm good question. I used to do the same i think i did it cause i liked the closeness after. Sometimes if i didnt really feel like he loved me i'd get in a strop over something and by the end of the arguement i'd feel all loved and secure again.

could this be why? or maybe your bored in your relationship and trying to liven it up a bit?

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