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female
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36-40,
*emetri
writes:Hi me and my on off boyfriend of 6 years have always had a bit of an unsteady relationship and recently it has been unsteady because i have been keeping it a secret from my parents as they don't believe he is good enough for me. we hav been arguing so much recently about silly things and then it always comes up hat i don't tell y parents that were together. I have a very close relationship with my parents and i hate to dissappoint them. I am trying to break them in gently to the idea that we are back together again but he doesn't seem to understand that this is the best way for me to tell them. He also is very possesive although when he doesn't want me to do thins i do them anyway as i don't ever want any one to have a hold over me and what i do. Please help me to stop these arguements with him and make him understand and be with me for me and eerythin i do not try and coop me up and control my life. what should i do ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): maybe just maybe.. you should take a step back and think about why your parents dont think he is good enough?? sounds like you and your parents are close and you should always put that first.. talk to them.. be straight and tell them. ask them for advice on your boyfriend. maybe it'll open your eyes up to another side of him. if you really want this boy then he should respect you enough as hard as it is to give you the time to approach your parents.
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