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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm scared for my BF, as his mum is really abusive and horrible to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I dont know who to turn to for this, im actually scared! My bf has an abusive mum, just this morning his mum found out that he missed 4 of his lessons from his school. And wen he arrived home she grounded him for 2 months. She is making him pay ...

We were married 18 years, split up, now she is contacting me again but is sleeping around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I'm a 42 year old guy, married for 18 years and split up for a year or so. We had problems for the last couple of years and we both decided instead of working things out, we split up. After I left she got a boyfriend instantly which told me sh...

My GF was hurt in a past relationship so won't have sex with me! How do I convince her I'm not 'that guy' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for over 7 months now. We have done a lot of things but never actually had sex. I am still a virgin, but she had sex once a couple years ago. She says the guy used her and really hurt her and she doesn't ...

My parents don't like my BF coz he does drugs! How can I make them see he's a great guy and makes me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a while. My parents don't like him cos he does drugs, which i don't do. Is there anyway that i can make them see that i like him for the laughs and the good times we have together? I feel that we are going to...

Should I stay with my BF who is close to perfect or go for the sexy music student who writes me songs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I'm really confused me and this guy I've been seeing for a year and a half (lets call him Eric) is great, i love him loads and he means the world to me he does everything in his power to make me happy. He really takes care of me. But I'm still very ...

Does this guy really have an interest in me since on our only day off he didn't want to hang out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hello cupid I met a person 5 weeks ago, in the third week we had our first date.We mantain in contact on phone twice or 3 times a day for short period due to the type of job we both have since then. We have both a job that has not allowed us t...

Am I just taking the brunt of external issues or does he really not want to be with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice from some of the readers of dear cupid. I have been answering problems on here a while now and have got some really good ratings - the only problem is, im useless at sorting out my own problems! I've been seeing this...

My visit with this friend went badly-she annoyed me immensely! Should I have handled her differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi all.. Hope you are all doing good and enjoying the beautiful weather (for those like me, who have and hate the snowy cold winter). Over the weekend, I met one of my closest friends' girlfriend after about two years. She was in town for a busin...

I wanted to believe her that she was my perfect girl. Am I wrong to be stressed about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - Ah well, here goes, lots to tell... I met a wonderful girl 2 and a half years ago, she was beautiful and sexy, and was interested in me, however, the months before we actualy got together people were telling me to stay away, and suggesting some ...

We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 478 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - 7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot ...

I have this 'saviour complex'-I try to help her all the time but it got to me! Did I do the right thing by saying, I can't be her friend anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I will start with a little information about myself. I seem to have this "savior complex" due to which I seem to be automatically attracted to people who need my help. Also, I feel guilty..ALOT. About three years ago I met this amazing female ...

Do you think we'll ever be one happy, united family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I have 2 daughters(11 and 14) and have been separated 28 months. 3 months ago i met a guy and we started a relationship. He's divorced with 2 boys(13 and 16) I seem to be attracted to dominant, controlling men and "D" is no exception. However ...

He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...

Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?...

I found pictures of someone on his phone, thing is I'm 4 months pregnant and don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and im 4 months pregnant. he already has another child who's 5. Lately he has been secretive with his mobile and panics anytime i go near it. when he was sleeping one night i went into his texts and seen that ...

Do you think I should get married to him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - hi i been with this man for 9 years, i use to live with him and his four kids they was bad and he got the other one with an other women i was all the time mad and i try to live by my self an other apartement. i lived there for 6 years but i keep him ...

I'm miserable with my agressive boyfriend. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore i am the end of tether, me and my bf have been together nearly together for a year and its getting worse than ever. He has such a short fuse and gets angry so easily to the point that everytime im around him he can r...

I spoiled my son's party which I regret, now I feel as if I can't live without them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - i met lucy 12 years ago just after I split from my first wife she helped me through a messy divorce. We have had a steady relationship, just the odd argument here and there. Until now we have got 2 kids one boy who's 8 one girl who's 1 and a half. ...

My friends told me he really liked me, so why did he go and get himself another girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - i started good mates with this lad about 3 years ago and i really liked him but he was giving me mixed signals, we drifted apart but now he's back and tried it on with me a couple of weeks back an ive started feeling back how i used 2, im best mates ...

My husband is controlling and abusive, does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - My husband is controlling , physically and emotionally abusive with me. He is only like this when we are fighting. He acts like he doesn't care about my feeling and doesn't care when I cry. He goes around acting like he doesn't care for me. Can you ...

What if he is seeing somebody else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi there I am in a fairly new relationship, its been two months now. I am happy a bit, because I feel like I cannot ask more from a r/ship at this stage. My current boyfriend is a very busy person. He is forever at work or outside the city, because ...

If I tell my partner it's over, he'll smash the house up as he's very manipulating and controlling. I don't know what to do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Hi i am 19 i have been in this relationship for 3.5 years. I have a little girl who is 2. Kevin is very manipulating and controling. He gets angry and shouts at me right in my face calls me names says he wishes i was dead. I want to end it so i can ...

She's leaving to do volunteer work and I'm devasted about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a problem at the moment that I'm not sure now to handle. I've been with my GF for several months now, and I think the world of her. We hit it off straight away, and things have been going as well as I could have wished for in the ...

Should I be with a girl who lies all the time or drown in this feeling of loniness...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend in October as I felt I wasn't being treated right. She only wanted to see me when it suited her and was too flirty with others. We meet now and again as we have been close all our lives. After I spend time with her ...

Do you think anything more will come out of this friendship I have with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Basically I have fallen for a guy and well he says he likes me an we've spent time together, call and text each other every day without fail etc Anyway to the point, whenever i bring up the subject of us actually getting together properly he just ...