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writes: Hi,Heres the story:Last week i was waiting at the bus stop with my girlfriend, after leaving a pub. We are both 19 years old, but my girlfriend looks very young for her age. While we were waiting there, some guys who we were talking to earlier, started calling her a 13 year old, which she really got upset by. I was also being called a peadophile for being with her. Im not the type of person to hit another person, so instead we moved away, yet they continued to say these things at us. We tried our best to ignore them, but in the end, my girlfriend went home crying, and i was on the phone to her for a few hours that night, trying to cheer her up.The next day i ring her again, and ask if shes ok, she says she fine and that she has got over it. Yet last night, (a week since it happened) she got upset again (to the point of tears) as she saw him again, but he didnt actually say anything this time. Every time i ask her if shes ok, she says shes fine, but i can tell shes not. How can i get her to not be afraid to tell me how she feels. I wanted to tell the guy how how i thought too, but couldnt as i thought that might start it all up again...Sorry for the long essay, im not really sure what mi asking. Really just wondering how i can get her to tell me her feelings more. Should i have confronted the guy??Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (27 January 2006):
 She will probably get over it eventually,you have been supportive and you seem a nice caring guy so dont worry.Your girlfriend was obviously offended by what these guys said but sometimes in life you are always going to get small minded people giving out rude,arrogant remarks because they have nothing else better to do.
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