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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

All I could do was think of him when we were apart, but he rings an ex....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - myself and my man just recently moved in together,we get on well but when we argue he seems to take it too far and drag it out, anyway we had a major fall out last week and he moved out. we got back together and we where getting back on track then ...

I want my own life, but I do want my baby to know it's father!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 944 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - Im having a baby very soon. The baby's dad left me as soon I fell pregnant and is now happily attached to a new woman. When he left he told me i should find someone new to bring up the baby and that he didnt want any contact with it. Now he has chan...

Can we move on from our past or no? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - After a bad end to a bad relationship which resulted in our son being born - he's nearly three. My ex and I have begun getting on really well. We spent two lovely weekends together and inevitably slept together. We have so much history not all good, ...

My ex of 3 years ago still loves me and wants me back, I dont know what to do as I dont want to let my current BF down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 951 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I need some advice.... I was in a relationship for nearly 5 years, from the age of 16. My ex decided to break up as he believed he didn't see a future for us. Although this was over 3 years ago it still left me in bits. Looking back we were only ...

I want to stop caring about him, but I don't know how!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 952 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - hi, how do you stop caring about someone, you know its the right thing to do , but when ever you let your guard down they are back in your head. i dont think im in love with him , but i do feel alot of feelings there still. it has been 2 yea...

His ex's bits and pieces are still round his flat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Dear cupid I have started seeing a new man. He seems really nice but there is one problem. I went round his flat and he still has her shampoo and other bits in his bathroom and Her exercise and weight chart on the fridge. Is it something to wor...

Problems with the boyfriend I love, but now my Ex is back and wants me too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 953 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with his baby. At that time my ex left me without any explanation, leaving me nowhere to go. I knew it from our friend and I was really hurt. Then after 6 months I got my new boyf...

In love with my ex again but I also love my boyfriend, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with him, at that time my ex left me with out any explanation,leaving me nowhere to go, i knew it from our friend and iwas really hurt.... then after 6 months i got my new ...

Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town? My fiancee was furious! Please advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Is it wrong to hang out with my ex-husbands family when they come to town. I have 3 children by this man and i took them to stay at a hotel with their grandparents and aunts and cousins. I havent seen these people in 7 years. So i sat with them a ...

I'm in a relationship, but my ex wants me back, too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - Please help me. I'm in a present relationship now at almost about 4 years. My ex-bf wants to win me back and I love him too. What shall I do? I love them both......

Helping him get over an ex, but now his not communicating, is he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - My mind feels scrambled!!!. I have been helping my male friend get over breaking-up with his ex but have found myself falling for him. I think he feels he same way about me. We have enjoyed cuddling each other very much but this has recently ...

I have moved on from my ex, but she has issues and I want to help, should I try to ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 955 days ago

28 May 2006 (M) - I still care for my ex but have successfully moved on to seeing other people, the days feel less boring and I feel much better about myself, etc.. etc.. In other words I'm over the break-up... And wanted to thank everybody here for the g...

Hung up over ex.... driving me nuts!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 954 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Hi all. after 10 years I am still head over heals with my ex and its driving me nuts he is however back in my life now and would hate to let him go again without telling him how I feel the thought of rejection holds me back he txs and has the nack ...

Boyfriend cheated....can I trust him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me for the first 3 months of our 1 year relationship with his ex girlfriend who he went out with for 10 years and has kids with. He said that he didn't take me seriously then but does now. He says that he ...

I want my ex boyfriend... but he's in a relationship. How do i get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I have this ex boyfriend that i am still in love with... but he has a girlfriend. He tells me now and then that he still likes me and that he will give me another chance when him and his girlfriend breakup And now im thinking.. ok i have to get over ...

I've been his wife for 5 years! So why does he still have excess baggage about his ex-wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 954 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I've been with my husband for 5 years we had alot of problems with his ex interfering when i ride with him to get his kids occasionally (once every few months or so ) and he goes every other weekend he gets real nervous and makes comments like ...

I feel like such an idiot and cant get over it!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 956 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - Im 22 years old and 3 years ago I met a boy who I fell in love with instantly. I never believed in love at first sight before until I met him. At the time, I was in a long term relationship with a boy and stayed with him for another year, whilst ...

Pregnant, but don't want everyone to know who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 944 days ago

27 May 2006 (F) - I'm in a real big mess and don't know what to do. I'm pregnant and I told who I thought to be the babys father. He didn't want to know which was fine, I didnt expect him to but after going to the doctors I've found out i may be further on than i ...

Should I go with true love or happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I'm currently in a 5 yr relationship with my bf, and we're preparing to get engaged. However,I've never forgotten my ex.My true love is my ex bf, but I know that we can never be happy if we get married because he and I can't support each other ...

My ex messed me up by cheating. Now I can't trust my girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 958 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I'm having a problem with myself. I've been with this girl for a while now and having a baby now. But she keeps saying that I'm judging her on my ex-girlfriend. My ex she cheated on me with a few people and I can't trust anyone any...

How do I stop thinking that I'll get back with my ex... so that I can move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - ello ppl (i am 15) how do i get over my ex i have liked sooooo much for years? i am trying to get him back by talking to him a lot and trying to impress him. i have a feeling he may go back out wiv me in the future and i think thats why i cant get...

She's way obsessed with my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriends ex wants him back. I asked her to stop texting him at wierd (late) hours then she told me she had sex with him last week. He denied but admited he went to talk to her to leave him alone. We have been together 6 month...

Why can't I get over the "bad boy" I haven't seen for six months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 658 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - I liked this guy for so so long. He has loads of different girls. I slept with him twice cos I naively thought that he would like me back. He txt me saying 'I've always liked you. I want you to take me seriously and I want us to have fun together...

I want to stop thinking about my ex. It's been a month and he's still stuck in my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I'm trying to get over my ex so badly but doesn't seem to be working. It's only been over a month but feels like forever. I've try to get my ex back but he's determined to see other people. We were on talking terms but yet again hes began ignori...

How could he say he loved me, then just go and sleep with another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - Hey there, I feel really down. I finished with my boyfriend last week who I loved so so much. I finished with him because I'm mega insecure and I was driving myself crazy worrying that he didn't like me!!! Anyway he told me he loved me and he'd nev...

Don't want to look too keen to see my ex, but I really want to chat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - My ex and I may get back together. I told him I love him a few weeks back, but I don't anymore. Because of this I don't want to come across as too interested, but I really miss him and want to chat, even though I saw him on Monday. Should I call him ...

Can I patch things up with my ex on this holiday away we have planned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Hi, im really after some advice. About 3 months ago my girlfriend ended our relationship of 2 years because of my drinking habit. I used to drink just about every night after work and had roughly 4/5 cans each night. She told me pleanty of times to ...

Twenty one years on, and my ex wants to get back in touch...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I need help. I'm happily married for 21 years and out of the blue I get an e-mail from my first love. He lives in Australia now and is also married buts wants to keep in contact. This has put a huge strain on me, cause he has woken up feelings that ...

Family hates my BF, but he makes me happy. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I'm probably getting back with my ex. The thing that's holding me back is my family hate him. My mum hates him because I run up the phone bill and act differently when I have a bf, and she has heard bad things about him from my brother who has frie...

Should I give my ex another chance and hope we can move on together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I was very much in love with my bf but he dumped me and lied about his reasons and really hurt me. We're getting on really well at the moment and we may get back together, but I'm still damaged by the pain he caused even though he's apologized and ...

He has a whole box of memorials of his ex....should I say anything?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I had recently asked a question concerning my boyfriend bringing a box over to my house (he lives with me) from his parents. When I looked in it I found a whole photo album of him and his ex. I was a bit bothered by that because when I asked him ...

Pregant with my exs child and now hes nasty!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I am pregnant by an ex.i told him and he has turned very nasty and doesnt want to be friends with me anymore,he already has a child of 9 by an ex and they dont get on but he puts up with her to see his child why is he dismissing his unborn child ...

Is he crying and asking me to stay because he's in love or because he's upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has been having a tough time lately. He moved out of his ex's home they shared with their kid. He says hes having trouble coping being away from his kid. He says he doesnt know what he want, he says he loves and cares for me but he ...

Engaged to someone, but still in love with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I broke up with my ex 3 and a half years ago, and I'm now engaged to another man who I have been with for nearly 3 years, but I cant stop thinking about my ex. He broke it off with me and now he keeps telling me he misses me and still loves me, and ...

Guys, can I win back my On Again, Off Again boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - For the guys...how do I win the love of my life back when we have had an on/off relationship and now we have split for good? It's been about a month but I really miss him and want him back. What should I do?...

She made his life but still the jealously and fear wont go away!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he broke up with his ex at the beginning of the year and they have a daughter together. She moved up north with the little girl and he goes up and sees her about twice a week. When we first starting dating ...

Ex is giving me the cold shoulder.. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - hi i have fallen out with my ex over the fact i am pregnant by him, i feel he is punishing me for something that took two of us.prior to me telling him we were friends but now he completlt ignores me.can he realy change his feelings about me that ...

Internet guy is being coldish.. What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - i met him in a textchat room, we got on so well, we exchanged mobile numbers. that was nearly a year and a half ago now. we texted and chatted every day, then we started phoning each other. We arranged to meet up several times but then there would ...

My arranged marriage is looming, but I still love my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I seriously have a big problem. I'm a Muslim. I was arranged to be married. Basically I have a marriage certificate but didn't do the wedding. It's in 2 months but I've known him for 5 years almost, but not personally. He's a kinda a family f...

Is my ex only interested again because I have someone new in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I have split from my bf nearly a month and a half ago and things are starting to get a tad better. A few Saturdays ago I went out to party and met this really nice guy. I had a great time and he came back to my mate's. We shared a sleeping bag and ...

Still in love with the "guy I couldn't have". Should I pursue it or stay with my current BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 962 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - A few months ago I met a new guy from work who had moved here from London. We got on well but he had a girlfriend. We went out a few times as friends but we were both really attracted to each other. We talked about how much we liked each other an...

How do I get my ex back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - i am 15, i want my ex back! we broke up a few months ago cos we wanted a break and consentrate on school. now i really want him back and i think he would get back with me cos no other girls like him or would go out with him cos he really isnt the ...

He got drunk and texted his ex that he still loved her. Now he's sorry, but I don't believe that I'm really Number One!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

20 May 2006 (F) - Hi all, need some advice. I'm seeing a guy now for 6 months and we have recently moved in together. I have 2 kids, he has 1. We have had many obstacles to overcome and have had many arguments, but we love each other very, very much and laugh an...

My ex got bitchy by text when I told her I still wanted to be with her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Ok, I'll try to keep this short. My ex girlfriend is going to Hawaii for a week with her rebound guy (started dating him right after we broke up and then had a fight). We have been broken up for just over 3 months, and while it was tough for a wh...

Ex is ignoring me BUT I'm PREGNANT by him!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 962 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I was just wondering why ever since I told my ex I'm pregnant by him he has turned nasty, ended are friendship and completly ignores me whan I try to contact him. I dont know what to do....

I still love my ex and I dont know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 964 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - My ex and I have been seperated for about a year on and off. We have a child together and have shared custody of her.I try to go about by life and try to meet other girls but I am still in love with my ex and I am not sure if she feels the same ...

Calling all married couples. How do you feel about first loves and exs??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 964 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi there. I'd really like to hear from the married amongst us. What feelings do you have towards your 'first loves' and exes. I'm getting married and I have a feeling that the argument about whether to invite his 'THE EX' is looming. ...

Is my ex a friend or more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 965 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - I don't know how i feel about my ex. When we were together it was amazing, my best ever relationship, and i think because of that i feel as though i'm really close to him now. We're friends, but i don't think he realises how significant he is to me. ...

How to go pubilic about my new relationship after the break up of my marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

18 May 2006 (F) - Hi, First i must say that i have always found your column very helpful and i can relate to some of the advice given. Well here is my problem, six months ago i came out of a marriage that i was more a convenience than a wife, i had looked up to m...

Why does my ex keep turning me down when I ask her out (as friends).. ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - Stayed friends with my ex, everything is going really well, but there's just one problem... Everythime I ask her to do something or go out to a movie, just to be friends, she always says no... I dont know if its because she scared or something but...