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writes: For the guys...how do I win the love of my life back when we have had an on/off relationship and now we have split for good? It's been about a month but I really miss him and want him back. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty butterfly +, writes (23 May 2006):
 on and off is never any good anyway hunny,your relationship with this man sounds like a rebound after rebound situation, may i suggest you start to walk a different path?you never know if you pay a little more attention elsewhere you might find who youre looking for...never mind the ex...just give yourself a chance,your're worth more...wish you luck!...aunty B x x x x
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Before you do anything radical, ask yourself this: Do I miss him because of the person he is, or do I miss having the presence of a boyfriend?
Then ask yourself Question Number Two: Have we corrected the problems that drove us to break up in the first place?
If you can answer that it's Him you miss, and you're confident that the problems you had have been permanently solved in the last month, then why not just ring him and talk?
You may not have to "win him back" at all, unless of course, he's with someone new. In that case, you should do nothing except tell him that you'd be interested again, should he be free.
Is it possible that this is just another "Off Again" in your on again, off again relationship? And if it is, why do you keep breaking up?
Stuff to think about...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006): I have the same situation as you, u know what i did i just kept myself busy so i wouldn't think of him and going out with friends really helps. Him and I just broke up 3 days ago and i know automatically that its for good because we both don't have the same feeling anymore. I admit I still do think of him and miss him sometimes but its only from my side, I don't know if he feels the same way, so its better not to expect anything. So mai advice to u is find someone better because your just fooling ur self if you thought of going back wit him. Ask yourself if u think you guyz relationship would still have a chance because wat if u guyz end up breaking up again. Try talking to him also, communicate wit him maybe thats wat's missing in u guyz relationship.
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