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writes: I broke up with my ex 3 and a half years ago, and I'm now engaged to another man who I have been with for nearly 3 years, but I cant stop thinking about my ex.He broke it off with me and now he keeps telling me he misses me and still loves me, and wants me back. But he tells everyone else he doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want me back!Every time I see him I just wanna go be with him. I have come so close to being with him lots of times.I really do love my current parnter but I'm torn between him and my ex. Please help. What should I do?Is my ex just playing me? Really need help.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 Have you maybe thought that he is only telling you this because you have moved on and he cant bare the thought that you have somebody else ? The fact that hes not ready to be with you, but hes damned if he will let you be happy with someone else ? You owe it to yourself and your new man to cut ties with your ex, its not fair to you or your man. People will only be hurt, and probably most of all that will be you. You say you love him, if you do then the choice is simple. Your ex is an ex for a reason. Dont let his meddling stop you being happy, hes just trying to spoil things for you as he can see your happy, hes not and probably hasnt got anybody else, let him get on with it. The choice was made 3 and half years ago to move on and you have done exactly that, move forward not back and look forward to a happy life with your new man.
Take care x
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