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writes:Characters (all fake names):MeJack (my crush's crush)Sophie (my crush)So somehow I found out I'm actually in some kind of love triangle.So today I met my crush's crush, who I shall call Jack. I had a hunch that Jack was Sophie's crush due to various signs (gotta love FB..._). How did I confirm this suspicion? My friend (who is also my crush's friend) unwittingly told me that Jack was her crush. My friend who told me does probably does not know that I have a crush on her. That was one piece of information I think I would be happier not knowing.I also found out that Jack had admitted to liking Sophie. So yes, they like each other, but no, they aren't going out.So I met him, and we (as a group of friends) went skating together. I was able to ignore what I found out the whole time (until I got home...). I've talked to him for a bit, and he seemed like a nice guy. In fact, I don't mind him at all as a friend. We seemed to get a long with each other quite well.Enter the dilemma: What should I do? Continue my efforts in getting closer to my crush? Ignore all this and pretend I never found out? (impossible...). This is weighing heavily on my mind (although I know it shouldn't), and I'm confused by all this.
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reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (4 January 2009):
 Look, its a difficult situation, and its only gonna be resolved if someone makes the first move, and lets face it you dont want it to be Sophie or Jack. So tell Sophie you like her. If shes a nice girl shes hardly gonna put you down cruley. If she says shes not interessted then at least you know, and you can begin getting over her. I wouldnt suddenly ask her out, as that puts her on the spot, just make sure she knows your interessted.
Alternitivly you could get to know Jack, and if you two become good friends you could mention you like her and he may have the curtusy to back off, but that may ruin your friendship with him, and if he says he likes her too then you both may have to agree neither dates her, and thats not what you want!
Good Luck
xox
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