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Orgasm only during foreplay not sex

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Question - (3 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

hi, im not sure if this is too open for this but i will give it a shot anyways.

So every time i have sex i can't seem to have an orgasm. I can only during foreplay. Is something wrong with me?

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom + , writes (3 October 2009):

hlskitten agony auntOnly 30% of women will orgasm through penetrative sex alone.

And a female will be able to tell you that more than a male. There's a lot of fakers out there ya know! lol x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009):

No, there is nothing wrong with you. I have always found it much more difficult to reach orgasm through sexual intercourse than through masturbation and foreplay. I need quite direct clitoral stimulation and most sexual positions don't stimulate the clitoris enough for me. I can manage it if I'm on top, however, so stick to that position if orgasm during sex is important to you.

Most guys are just happy to have given you an orgasm (especially if they get theirs later) and won't mind if you have it during the course of foreplay rather than sex.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (3 October 2009):

I'm a male, so you will almost certainly find better answers. I don't think there's anything wrong with you, lots of women seem to find it more difficult to climax during sex. Try using forpley to get you to a point where you're almost ready ro climax, then finish with sex? Don't worry though, you're normal

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