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writes:I am 17 an i am attracted to a 32 year old man with cerebral palsy. And I want to have sexual relations with him when i turn 18. is that bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): It's totally irrelevant that he has cerebral palsy
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 June 2009):
 Think about your motives for this. I think that it is fine as long as you both consent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): NO!!! age means absolutely nothing in a loving relationship. and those who deem it wrong need to open thier minds. but if you are asking if it is wrong to be with an ill man then no again as long as he can choose for himself etc the usual x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Ask yourslef why you want to do this. Is it because he's older than you and you're attracted to older men? Is it because you're wondering what it would be like to have sex with a disabled person? Is it because you feel sorry for him and want to give him a treat?
Or is it because you love him and want a relationship with him? Remember, he's also a human being and although his body might not do what he wants it to do, his brain will be no different to anyone else's when it comes to thought processes, emotions and feelings.
Think carefully about what your motives are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009): Is what bad? The age difference or the cerebral palsy?
And what was your meaning behind mentioning that he has cerebral pasly? Sorry, i am just a little confused.
If you're talking about the age, then honestly: who can tell you that it's "bad" to go for an older man. What even defines "bad?" That's your choice. Some people will condone it some will oppose it. Don't worry about what other people think. As long as you are doing it for what you believe to be the right reasons.
~SY.
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