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writes:Me and my partner have been together for about 4 years, the last 18 months or so 'sex' does not happen! Well it does but once a month at the most. I dont know why and it could break us. Its as if she just dosnt want it any more. What could be the reasons for this? and, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (18 June 2009):
 I agree with QuirkLady, sit her down and talk. If her libido is low, she might be experiencing some hormonal problems and seeing a doctor can solve it.
If she's as young as you (22-25) it's unacceptable. At that ages you should be like rabbits.
Good luck
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reader, PD  +, writes (18 June 2009):
I agree with QuirkLady.
Try make the setting for heart-to-heart talk formal. Arrange a proper place with good ambiance, e.g Candlelight restaurant.
Write down notes on what you plan to speak about. (beside the sex issue, think what might be HER concern. Marriage? Financial? Depression? you figure out!)
Finally, let her know the arrangement a day in advance. This will create anticipation in her. This will also prepare her to tell you (hopefully) her hidden secrets.
All the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): Maybe she likes someone else?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (18 June 2009):
 Have you sat down and talked about it? That's your first step.
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