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anonymous
writes:I think my boyfriend has a phobia with going down on women. he has tried a few times but has never went down on any woman and he is 30 years old. i have questioned him about this and he says he doesn't know why he can't do it and says his problem doesn't have anything to do with me. i asked if he has had a bad experience and he says no. please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): Maybe he just doesn't like the idea. Some people like doing some things and others like doing other things. Ask him what he likes doing - you may get some surprises. Surely it can't be that important. Don't expect him to be like everyone else because each person is an individual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I have had this problem in the past with a boyfriend!The truth is some men just don't enjoy it or get off on it...same as some women don't like giving head! :)
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Either he is afraid he doesn't know what to do, or he doesnt like the smell. And he would never tell you that either. Also, there are some people who just thinks its gross and wrong. There are women who wont do it to men for that reason as well. So try and make sure you are smelling fresh the next time you have sex and then try and get him to do it. Talk him through it if you have to. The more open couples are abou there sex preferences the better it is.
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