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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I really want to have a threesome, but I'm dubious that it will ruin our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi there! So i really love sex. I have a boyfriend,now for almost 1 year, and things are going really well. We are friends and lovers. Everything seem to be great when we are together, even with no money... When we have sex, I feel really turned o...

Did I lose my virginity even though it was just his finger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - if i am a virgin and someone sticks there two fingers into my vagina like a shove almost and i bleed afterwards is that losing my virginity? because i have been very close to losing my virginity before. like one time i thought i lost it because ...

Does the fact my girlfriend sleeps over a lot bad for our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now and we both love each other but she lives about 30 mins away and until a couple of months ago she didn't drive so she usually just spends the night about 3-4 nights a week. I'm 20 and she ...

My husband is very selfish in bed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for a year and the problem is that I think my husband doesn't love me. The only time when he kisses me or hugs me is when he wants to have sex. To make it worse, when we have sex it is all about him, receiving massages, oral sex ...

Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi! Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus? If so, why do some say they do and some say they dont? Are they scared we think they're gay? I only met two men who asked me to touch them there. However, I don't really know how...

I'm too sexually active for my liking, how can I calm down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am really sexually active, last night I slept with a friend of mine and tonight, where my friends and I are going, there's this guy who wants to sleep with me and of course, I'm sexually active and I said ok. What's wrong with me? So far in my ...

Am I a lesbian, bisexual or just perverted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi!I have a question for you.Well,I am 25 years old,and over this last months I think...I ve changed. Since I was 7 years old, I masturbate, and think about sex at all times. I also remember thinking about sex before that age. So, since then,I e...

Ladies: What is up with people thinking masturbating is just for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Just a quick query about female masturbation. Ladies/girls is it just me or do you think it's a bit sexist to presume that girls don't masturbate and that wanking is a guy's thing? If you are a girl and you masturbate, do you feel really annoyed b...

Are we doomed to be an oral free couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt give me oral and i love it. He will finger me before we have sex, and sometimes if im lucky during, but he doesnt go down and its my fave thing ever. He has said he doesnt like it but he will do it if he wants me to, but by then, ...

A woman giving birth turned me on... am I a pervert?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi, this is an odd thing. A few weeks ago i was flicking through the tv channels and there was a documentary on about women giving birth...normally this sort of thing chrns my stomach but on this occasion i decided to watch the programme and got ...

Hard, soft, hard, soft... why are my erections doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I was hugging up to a girl this past weekend and a friends get together kind of thing and I kept getting an erection but a couple minutes later it would go flaccid, I wasnt really interested in having sex with her but it was kinda frustration. ...

How do I come across as the saucy temptress he thinks I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 352 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - ok here goes...i am going out with my good friend in a few weeks time and i know that a guy i know - through her will probably come and meet up for a drink later on in the night. We've been talking over text and phoning and recently the texts have ...

Am I pressuring him into sex when he's not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Ok my boyfriend and I have been going out for two months now. We are both 19 years old. After about a month of going out he started trying to initiate sex and at first I was unsure so we held back and waited. A couple of weeks ago I felt ready so we ...

Her sexual past haunts me daily, I didn't even ask, she volunteered the information!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for about six months now. I purposely never asked about her sexual past. However she has offered up more than enough information on her own.I cannot seem to get over her past as much as I try. I know I can't change it, I do ...

I think she sees me as nothing more than a sex toy... any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for 3 years, and i have recently moved homes and she has not been able to join me as she works near to where she currently lives. Since i moved home our relationship has deteriorated into arguments all the time and ...

Is it too much to ask for pleasure after he's done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been together for 3 years are 16 now and have been having sex for past 2 months, we do use protection just to be safe (condoms, the pill) but lately im not that into it even though he is. he can never seem to get me to orgasm. its ...

Are condoms still necessary even if I'm on birth control pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if I was on birth control should my boyfriend still need to wear a comdon so we don't get pregnant? Thanks for all the help....

How do I seduce him without being embarassed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend stopped in the middle of having sex last nite, complaining that im to quiet in bed, and because he doesnt know if im enjoyin it he doesnt enjoy it! he wants me to be more dominating in bed, but i cant change the way i am! Im just scared ...

Does size matter?? I want to be a porn star!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hey everybody, Im a 16 year old,latino And im measuring at 7 1/4 Umm well I have a lot of questions to ask well I want to know if im "big" enough to be in porn? Also my penis has been growing rapidly I was a 5 1/2 just 6 months ago is this normal?...

Please just help me put my mind at ease. Very concerned about my size!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I am a teenage male and a virgin, let's just say 15-18 and I am stuck on the time old question of does size matter. I won't lie, I'm at a 4.5 to 5 inches and for someone like me, you see guys with 6 and 7 inch penises wondering if THEY are big ...

Can I give or receive oral sex without passing on my oral herpes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - if i have oral herpes and i have no outbreaks can someone give me oral sex without me giving it to them?also can i give oral to someone without passing it on if i have no outbreaks at the time?or can i never have oral or give oral ever?...

My boyfriend has given up on trying to make me orgasm!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and he still hasn't been able to give me an orgasm. This is nothing new, as I've never achieved an orgasm with anybody (but myself). Other than that we have a great sex life. We experiment with ...

What are some ways for me to please my BF without intercourse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm going to see my boyfriend soon (yay). I'm not ready to have intercourse yet, and I really dont want to do any oral/anal either. My bf doesn't have a problem with that, but I wanted to know other ways of ...

I can't seem to get turned on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there ...