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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm losing him to porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - OK, here is my problem... PORN. Well I guess it's more of my fiance's problem than mine. At first I thought it was just something he watched whenever we weren't able to have sex, but more and more I see it as a problem. When we first got together he ...

I'm scared of this whole sex thing, will having sex be the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok so i am 13 i have been going out with this guy and he is 16 i know that tere is a huge difference betweeb our ages but im just in love and i know that he loves me too. i really want to have sex with him we both want that really bad but then i ...

Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Can you still have sex and get access to her clitoris if her legs do not part very wide?...

For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me. No matter what I tried he wouldn't have sex with me. Even dressing up in sexy lingerie didn't work - he still wouldn't have sex. I asked him if he was stressed, but he said nothing ...

I went online for cybersex pretending I'm a woman and it turns me on! Does this mean I'm a gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - cyber sex hi im male , ive got a wife and 2 kids, we have not been getting lately, ive signed to a web site for cyber sex chat, you can talk to women and even do cam to cam cyber sex , the problem is theres more men on than women and it got...

My boyfriend use to get coldsores, does that mean I will get herpes if he goes down on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is very used to getting coldsores but hasnt had one in a bout a year. We started to haave sex about 8 months ago and he goes down on me. As coldsores is herpes, and it never goes, does this mean i have herpes? can you tell?...

Will it hurt the first time even he were to be really gentle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Would it hurt the first time if he went gentle on me?...

Does it hurt the boy to have sex for the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok i have a few questions about sex does it hurt a boy when they hav sex for the 1st time and does it really really hurt for a girl?? my second question is when you bleed when you have sex for the first time would it be embarrasing because ...

My boyfriend can go months without wanting to be touched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is 34 yrs old but doesnt really like romance,he can go months without touching me or been touched.wat culd b d cause?...

Could the amount I watch porn be affecting how I get turned on with my boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been with my boyfrined for afew years now. Atfirst our sexlife was great but it has slowly gone downhill. Before we got togther I had watched porn with ex boyfreinds and loved it. However when we got together and tried to watch it I felt ...

I keep hearing my parents having sex and it puts me off! What to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I need some advice, I keep hearing my parents having sex and it's driving me mad, I know it's natural and all that but it is freaking me out. It's actually putting me of sex. And why do they always go to the toilet once they have finished???...

I'm circumsized, will I be able to give a woman pleasure eventhough?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - well im 19 and im still a virgin and im scared if ill give a woman pleasure she desreves.and ive been readin that a circumsized male can give a woman pleasure than alot say that isnt true.so i go a big penis and that wont help even if its big its ...

We have unprotected sex regularly, how come I don't get pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hiya i seriously need help :( well basicaly im a 15 year old girl i lost my virginity at the age of 13,and now im 15 ive bing having sex with my partner on a regulr basis(every weekend) on a saturday but the thing is we hardly use a condom but what ...

Do all girls bleed their first time? And what contraceptives work the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Me and my borfriend are going to have sex fer da first time well its my first time, but im afraid that im going to bleed. Do all girls bleed on their first time?? We want to know wich type of condoms work the best and which pregancy pills work the...

Why don't I want sex with my boyfriend any more??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months now. He is the only guy I have had regular sex with. Every time he kisses me I get claustrophobic and when he tries it on with me I get annoyed and it does nothing for me at all. I am now only ...

Are there consequences to having sex 3 times a day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Before me and my fiance got engaged he was never asking for sex, only when it was the right time, now we're going insane... sex three times a day? Are there consequences to doing it this much? Is there a reason we're in this phase? O_O even though ...

She lets me stay over and sleep in her bed - but sex is out for now - why could this be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently went through some rough patches, i.e. she moved me out of her house her parents own that I moved out of my place to live in almost a year ago. Now we are together still and she lets me stay over and sleep in her bed, but ...

Are the chemicals released during sex causing me to have a high tolerance for noise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - For some reason, whenever I have sex for 20+ minutes, I cannot hardly hear afterwards! I mean, I can have a conversation with someone just fine (it's just a little harder than usual), but I always feel like I cannot hear the TV or hear music that I ...

I'm not sure if I squirted or if it was urine. Or did I squirt? And is it normal for female ejaculation to be as thin as urine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've only been having orgasms for the last 4 years, and when I first started, I would sometimes pee b/c I didn't know how to control my pelvic muscles. In any case, since then I think I have realized that I can have squirting orgasms. However...

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk ...

If I quit masturbating, will it help my 'performance'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I am a gay 18 year old male and I use to constantly masterbait to porn. Recently I was with another guy and I wasn't able to "perform" because I would lose my erection. I was embarassed and I honestly masterbaited earlier that day. I was wondering ...

I don't want to be a dad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I don't want to become a dad at 15 years old but I what to have sex with my girlfriend, we both want to but we don't want kids yet, what do I do....

What exactly is "friends with benefits", please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Hi. What exactly is friends with benefits? All sounds a bit immature to me! Is this a normal sexual relationship based on denial so that no-one gets 'hurt'? Many thanks....

What are the odds that my hymen was broken during a rape kit when I was 6?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I had to have a rape kit completed on me when I was only 6 years old. They did a pap smear (HURT INCREDIBLY!! I still remember the pain) and then inserted a speculum, too. I don't remember whether or not I bled afterward. In any case, I lost ...

I have a high sex drive and it is a huge struggle for me - what could I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Okay here's the deal, quite simply I have a high sex drive and my boyfriend has a low sex drive. We love each other and have no intentions of breaking up. The difference is sex drive doens't really affect him a great deal but it is a huge struggle ...

Am I a virgin if I have used "man like" toys during masturbation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - This is something that has been plaguing me for ages . . . I have never had sexual intercourse with a man, but I have used man-like toys during masturbation and my hymen was ripped/broken. Am I a virgin? Sorry if this question is a bit g...

Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for ...

Is it because of rough sex that I'm getting sore after sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - So, my ex and I got back together about 3 weeks ago. Since I haven't been on birth control in a while, the first time we had sex I used the Plan B (Morning after pill), the following weekend we ended up using a condom and he morning afterwards I ...

Confused... does he love me? or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hey guys, quite new to this but really need help on this one! I have asked everyone I know for their opinion and now I am asking you! please help!! When I was at college 2 years ago I had a best friend there who just also happened to be my "friend ...

He lost his sex-drive. How do get it back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I am so confused... and need some help. I have been with the same man for 4 years. (He is 21 I am 20) We were sexually active soon after we got serious, we would fool around a lot, but not much sexual intercourse would happen because I wasn't on ...

Could a large penis have done this to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I recently started talking to one of my ex boyfriends from when I was younger. Having sex with him always hurt a little, because his penis is very large. It had been a long time since I had sex, I would say about a year, and we had sex yesterday. It ...

Will my hubby record me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm a 25 year old, married woman. For Christmas this year I have bought my hubby a digital camcorder with the intent of letting him film me pleasuring myself and the 2 of us together. We are both quite adventurous in the bedroom, but I a...

My boyfriend's libido has decreased...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 354 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We are very much in love with one another. When we were first getting to know each other and the topic of porn came up, I let him know that I was not fond of it as I believe it is degrading to ...