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Hard, soft, hard, soft... why are my erections doing this?

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Question - (18 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was hugging up to a girl this past weekend and a friends get together kind of thing and I kept getting an erection but a couple minutes later it would go flaccid, I wasnt really interested in having sex with her but it was kinda frustration.

Is this normal?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYou answered your own question here with, "I wasnt really interested in having sex with her." In addition to your youth and inexperience, this indecision or wavering interest would interfere with the physiological. In other words, sexual desire and activity is as much mental as physical.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

it's probably due to your age. you are still going through puberty and your body is still trying to sort out all the raging hormones. it will probably calm down when as you get older.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

Same with me, it just goes up when I really don't feel like it. Pretty annoying, especially when I'm sitting down in the bus or anywhere else public, as I don't want to get up and reveal something trying to poke out of my pants for everyone to notice as I walk past people.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

In your teens your hormones are all over the place! Maybe your emotions and thoughts about her kept changing and your erection reacted as appropriate?

I understand most guys get them on and off throughout the day anyway? You're probably fine, I know it's not the best piece of advice, you should talk to a guy really, but hey I tried lol!

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