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Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus?

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Question - (18 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2008)
A female Portugal age 30-35, *elina writes:

Hi! Does every straight man feel pleasure when touched in the anus? If so, why do some say they do and some say they dont? Are they scared we think they're gay?

I only met two men who asked me to touch them there. However, I don't really know how to do it properly. Should I just touch them softly with my thongue and fingers, or should I stick my finger inside? Should I ask? Or will they be embarrassed with me asking if they want me to stick my finger inside them? I love to have sex with men and I get really horny touching every part of their body. I like to be on top and lead the whole thing, as well as be on the bottom and just take it. I love anal and taking it from behind, but when the subject is his anus... I just don't know what to do... Can anyone help?

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A female reader, MissUnique United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2008):

MissUnique agony auntI agree with the anonymous guy, what is so pleasurable about anal sex? I don't think it sounds gay at all, but I do think it sounds pretty awful. And why would I want to touch theirs either? I would never eat finger food again. Seriously.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

I don't understand anal at all. What's so pleasurable about it? I feel nothing sexually around my anus at all. In fact I find it disgusting more than anything if it has anything to do with sex at all.

I don't like the idea of having my member go up a place where she's supposed to shit from, and I wouldn't want my partner touching mine either, in fact I'd keep that hand far away from me.

I understand why a lot of women won't go anal, but at the same time I don't understand why a lot of women like it at all.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (18 November 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntMany men are completely afraid of having their backdoor toyed with because, yes, they think that suddenly they'll turn gay or something (which is ridiculous). It's probably best to ask first rather than just going for it - just going for it is pretty aggressive and you might catch the fella completely off guard and really put him off.

As for what to do when you're down there - always start by touching them softly. This is something that needs to be a slow process until he's good and used to things. Then you can find out if he wants you to start slow or just go for it.

Get them nice and lubed up, stroked them for a little while until you can feel them begin to relax (and you can feel it, trust me). When their body begins to relax and get accustomed to your finger toying, it will be much easier and more enjoyable when you put your finger in. Once you finger is in, be sure you're still going slow. You'll feel a hard, sort of walnut like ball in there... congratulations! You have found the male G-spot. You'll feel it get harder and harder and he gets closer and closer. Stroke this with your finger and you're GOLD, baby.

Make sure you ask and make sure he's really open and comfortable with the idea before you go for it.



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