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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

During sex I like to be on top, but he likes to be in control... where is our happy medium?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - do guys prefer to be on top or for a girl to ride them? for me personally i like to be on top but he prefers to be in control how can we do both at the same time?...

I have no one to talk to... what is masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) - ok well this is probably 1 of the hardest questions for me to ask anyone. so this is why i am asking everyone here i dont want to ask my friends or my parents because its embarrassing. what is masturbation? what is jacking off? how do i masturbate? ...

I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Been dating my bf of almost a year...we moved in together a little over two weeks. I really want to get intimate with him yet he doesn't seem interested. We've tried to get intimate about 4 times but I think he was nervous or something because ...

I can orgasm, but I can't always be sure if I've ejaculated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Im 15 and cant ejaculate, but to be honest I have tight foreskin too. I can pull it back but it wont stay back and I cant always be sure if I have ejaculated I can orgasm though. I don't wanna get the snip but im not sure what to do, i've not been ...

How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi? For 6 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust her, I ...

What really turns a guy on during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - What really turns a guy on during sex? i really wanna please my bf anything i can do to him? wear? say? we both enjoy it but i wanna spice things up and surprise him with something that will give him a spark :] help and advice pleasee!!!...

I can't ejaculate yet... is something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I'm 15 and can't ejaculate yet, is there something wrong?...

I've got raging hormones and I need instructions on how to please a girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) - hi everyone, i have 2 questions im very very curious about. i know im young im 14 years old but well i have raging hormones haha. well i really would like to know is 1.) how do i get a girl wet or make her wet? and 2.) how do i finger a girl like ...

How can I orgasm easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Recently me and my boyfriend have started penetrative sex, we both talked it over and stuff (we were both virgins and we are using protection) personally I love it... and with him he gets really sad because he thinks he not doing it correctly, he's ...

What to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I had sex about a month ago, my period was 2 weeks late and very light only lasting on and off for about two days, two pregnancy test were negative, should I just take the negative test and be happy or should I consult with my doctor?...

How hard do you have to be to penetrate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - How hard do you have to be to penetrate? Usually when my gf gives me oral for example, at the beginning I'm not that hard but as you get into the motion you become more and more hard, however you can't apply the same trick to sex because if you're ...

Is sperm good for the complexion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Is a guy's sperm really good for the skin or is that just a myth? See my bf doesn't like to cum in a condom. He pulls it off when he's ready to finish and puts his sperm on my chest or belly. I usually just wipe it off but he says I should rub it in ...

I know I've done a really stupid thing... I just don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - In the last year I have become really close to a girl I met in my local pub. We are very good friends and go out in a small group of friends every weekend. But now I'm worried that I could lode her friendship over something really stupid that I h...

When is the right time to tell my parents that I don't got my virginity anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - When is it to be the right time to tell my parents I don't have my virginity anymore? I am only 13 years old, and I just lost my virginity a few days ago with my girlfriends I have been dating for 13months (1year1month). I understand it is...

Is it normal for a girl of that age to be like that? What made her do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend walked into my room without knocking and I was caught doing sexual activity's. After 3 seconds she came directly onto me she started to take off her clothes and I asked her what are you doing because I was scared, I wasn't ready to...

Is my penis length natural?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said ...

After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. I want her to stop drinking so much. But how ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I love being with my girlfriend. We have a ton of fun together and rarely fight. After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. A few drinks is daily lately so in the mornings and afternoons she seems distant; makes me ...

I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that, problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that with her as normally most girls ive been with just dont really care about protection. Only problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up...is this ...

My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. I think I am pregnant. Is that bad for the baby ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. but we still have unprotected sex and now i think i am pregnant. is that bad for the baby what should i do?...

Am I just a sexual pervert or am I bi or gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I don't think I have a problem, I just need to understand myself. I'm middle aged and as straight as they come. However, I have recently started a sexual relationship with an oriental 'ladyboy' She still has a penis, but boobs, long hair, pretty ...

Problems with maintaining erection, could you give me any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I have a girl that i really like her i have tried having sex with her 4 times but it won't go up i don't know why, i have never experience this problem before its not like i don't like her because she is the finest one i have had and i mean fine, ...

Is it my boyfriend's baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I am pregnany and 2 months before i got pregnant i slept with a guy with a condom and i had my period the same month and the month after that then i slept with my boyfriend without a condom and he ejaculated in me and i missed my period is it his ...

Why does he get sore the next morning after our sexual play?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Okay my boyfriend have been pleasuring eachother with our hands for a week now. I come almost every time he fingers me. He always pulls my hand away before he comes because he says he doesn't want to gross me out. We do this a few times in a night, ...

Is there something wrong with him or me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - i AM 23 YEARS OLD. Ive been dating the same guy for three years now. I love him very much, and we have a lot of fun together. He was a virgin when we first started dating. But now we hardly have sex, maybe once a month if im lucky, and when we do ...

Could my reaction to orgasm be a turn off to a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my question is kinda embarrassing. I had my first orgasm today and my entire body was just shaking like mad, like I was extremely cold, which I wasn't. Is that normal and if so, would that be a kinda turnoff for a guy when I do eventually have ...

Is it possible to have an allergic reaction to a partner's sperm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Is it possible to have an allergic reaction to a partner's sperm? I had sex with a male friend. He ended up ejaculating on my stomach. Now I have a mild rash on the same area he let his sperm out on. Is that possible? It's the only cause I can think ...

I don't want to go straight to sex... should we try oral or wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - hi me and my girl friend are both mature for our age , i would like to do more than kissing and snogging but i dont want to go straight to sex. would you recommend us tryin oral or wait till we both feel ready for sex and yes i really am ...

Why don't I feel when I orgasm, yet I know I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) - Hello. I masterbate... alot, but when i orgasm i dont feel it but i can see that i have. Why dont i feel it? Is there any thing i can do so i can that i've came?...