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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't enjoy sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - hey guys, I've been having sex for about a year now. I've only ever came twice. it really gets to me. i dont know how to enjoy sex. Sometimes i do but its never that good. i just lose interest so quickly. I'm the person who rolls over and goes to...

What turns guys on and gets them in the mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My fiance has always loved sex but hates initiating it, feeling as if it makes him seem needy so I've taken the intitative to start things, what are some sexy things I can do for him to get him in the mood and to start sex? like whenever I want it I ...

How can I suggest to him we use condoms without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys! Well I am gay and have been with my boyfriend now for the best part of 3 years. We've recently started having sex but I am a little concerned about using protection. I mean I know that we can't get pregnant or anything like that but I mean ...

Why does sex get so painful for me when I'm on top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 371 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm almost 16 and I've been having sex for over a year. The first it really wasn't that painful and it never really has been. But recently, it's started to get painful when I go on top. It never used to hurt and it doesn't hurt when I'm on bottom. ...

What does he mean when he says he gets attached?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - What is a guy implying when he says that he gets attached to the people he has sex with? ...

Condoms stop me getting hard!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for around 3 months, and we get along great, but when we try and have sex, no matter how hard I am, when I put on the condom, I get quite flacid and I can't really get it in. Any tips on this? If she gives me a ...

My penis size worries me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...

My boyfriend wants a blowjob! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob and I'm more then happy to but I have no clue what I'm suppose to do... tips/help please and do guys like to finish on their girls? or in privacy...

How do I say no when it goes too far without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but he is a little more aggressive than the guys I've dated previously. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, I just find it hard to say no to him. I have not felt like saying no to anything so far, but I'm only 15 and don't ...

He wants me on top. What do I do when I am up there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I just lost my virginity a few days ago. and I was talking to my boyfriend about it and he suggested next time I be on top. I don't have a problem with that...but what do I do when I'm up there? how do I make it feel good for both of us? any ...

Some boy wants sex with her - am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - right me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years now and there was times in the past where she has got a text from some boy and he has suggested sex. I had a go and all that but when he text now i get annoyed. my girlfriend says im ...

I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (?) - I am 20 and I don't know if I will ever get a girlfriend. I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it! I don't know what to do anymore I am going crazy! Girls all want sex, but that is nothing I could ever give to a girl! It sucks and ...

I wanted to stay pure, but I want to have sex with my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - ok, so before i had vowed my self to "purity" you know Abstinence, i really thought this was something i wanted to do. Wait until marriage and give my husband my virginity, something no one else could give or have. well i think i've changed my mind. ...

I've lost my sex drive... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I am 53, and in the last month I have lost my sex drive. What can I do?...

My heart is breaking because we're severely sexually incompatible.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I am 25, gay and have been in a relationship with a loving man for four years. The problem is since we moved in together three years ago we seem to have become severely sexually incompatible. I have found myself holding back my desires. Wanting...

Could I get pregnant from the sperm on his hands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - im really paranoid, badly. my boyfriend and i started to have sex, he said he wanted to feel what it was like for a second without the condom, so i let him, and a few seconds he put his condom on, i made him stop half way, and he jerked off the rest ...

Can anyone explain to me what sex is like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone explain to me what sex is like? How it feels? What's so great about? What do you do? etc....

Step by step blow job instructions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend want me to give him a blow-job but i dont know how. Can anyone explain it to me....like step by step please! thanks so much!!...

My boyfriend really wants a threesome and I'm really not up for it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months now and we've had sex a lot but now he's been asking me all the time to have a threesome with him and he just won't understand that i really don't want to. sometimes he says ...

Will I bleed on our wedding night?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm getting married in exactly a month to my long time bf! We both have not had penetrative sex ever since we have been saving it for our wedding night. We are both 29. I'm worried that the first time will be uncomfortable. We are both familar very ...

Genital warts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 374 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Okay, I just recently found out that my b/f has genital warts but he only broke out with one wart unlike the horrific pictures I have seen in my nursing book.... since he noticed the bump on his penis he made sure we used a condom until he knew for ...

I want to care... how do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 374 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm confused because to most people including all my friends sex is a "big deal" [by that I mean emotionally like they always really like the person] and for me it's kinda just a thing. I want to care about it but when it comes to it have no ...

My stupid ape-looking boobs

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my ...