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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - How can you find out, why your husband don't want sex with you? Is there a good question to ask? And what can you do , if you don't find it out? How to read his mind? And ,what if you can't find it out... How long can you wait an answer, or solut...

My girl wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 4 years and shes suddenly we've been talking about taking our relationship "the next step" and im not sure if i hsould because were both 16 would it be illeagle? and if so im afraid im gonna hurt her... were ...

He doesn't need to use a condom, how can we find a compromise?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi aunts, I need some ideas from you. My partner of 6 months and I enjoy what we think is a healthy sex life. I am on the pill and take it between 6.30 and 7am every morning (rain, hail or shine). The problem is, my partner insists on putti...

I'm struggling with my wife not wanting to have sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been married for a little over 11 years. For the past 2 - 3 years (if not a bit longer) our sex life has diminished to the point of virtually nothing (manual stimulation at best). For more than a year, my wife and I haven't had ...

I'm in a very odd situation...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - So I'm 17 and technically I'm still a virgin but medically I am not, meaning my cherry's been popped. And lately I've just been wanting to have sex and I don't really want to be in a relationship or have it be special at all. I just want to do it. ...

We're both virgins and he's dying to have sex, but I'm not so sure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and he tells me he is a virgin but he does not act like one. he asks me to have sex with him like 3 times a day or more and I don't know if im ready to have sex, I mean a guy has just put it in then it hurt too bad, ...

I want to keep my virginity so is this compromise solution I found, normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi, Im 21 and wish to keep my virginity until I am married however i still want sexual pleasure. My bf and I thrust a lot with underwear on but topless (dry hump) but I cant feel his penis properly. So he took it out but after a bit my lacey ...

My boyfriend falls asleep after sex leaving me aroused and frustrated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend always falls asleep after sex, he's really good in bed, but I can't seem to orgasm while having sex and so he cums and falls asleep and I'm left frustrated and horny, what should I do?...

I know he masterbates to porn then denies it. No sex for me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - hello every one, i have just written lately about my husband,the one that i have just got married to and he is little cold with me even before he was dieing to marry me,and i found out that he look at porn and play with his self. every one told...

Hurting and want it to stop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Well, well where to start... I started dating this guy almost 2 years ago, it was amazing he swept me off my feet made me feel like no other guy has ever we spent all of our time together, then all of a sudden he changed and was very protective ...

Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...

If you leave sex for a few days your hymen heals itself and you have to break it all over again. Is this true??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Last Friday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It really hurt (me being very nervous probably didn't help) and I bled, but I thought that at least next time it won't hurt as bad. Thing is, my friend told me that if you leave it for a few days ...

Wow! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young....

Losing my virginity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it ...

How can I make him feel good during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been having sex (were both 16 and used protection) and im wondering how can i make him feel good during it. he plays with my chest alot (to be honest that turns me on like crazy..) and was wondering if i can do something for him it ...

How do marriages survive this kind of thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 363 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - OK, you guys were right. I've been a fool. My wife didn't just sleep with this guy once, she's carried on at least ten times with him. What hurts the most is - we had a deal on the table. I would forgive her her one indiscretion, and she would fo...

Why can't I get pregnant ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - hey just got married there three months ago and came off the pill.am having lots of intercourse around the time i shoul be ovulating but nothing happening so far bought some ovulation predictor kits and am hoping they will work have two beautiful ...

I have to stop feeling this way before it kills me. How do I handle this ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I need help. I am getting seriously sick - literally and metaforically - because of the situation I am in. Here goes..I have been married for several years now. During the marriage me and my guy have been through a lot ups and downs and I see him ...

What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 377 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is p...

I don't know how to start off in sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I don't know how to start off in sex! How do you start off, do you just start making out and then let it unfold or just let him lead you, or should I even lead him?...

IS this midlife crisis or have I fallen out of love with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Help! I have realised that I dont love my husband anymore. I like him, hes a nice guy but theres no passion or interest. I dont know what to do as we are in a business together and after working so hard at the business I dont want to give up my ...

My boyfriend wants to make out but I don't and he doesn't get it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend wants to make out and do other sexual things all the time. He said he will wait until I want to do them, but then he will go and bug me about doing stuff with him. I don't like to do that kind of stuff, and I don't want to. I tried ...

First time unprotected sex after we've been careful for long - what is causing the bleeding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time. We've been together for almost 2 years and we've always been very careful. I'm on birth control. We've always used a condom up until last night. And I never had unprotected sex ...

I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...

He wasn't that hard! Am I unappealing to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - ok so i theres this boy who i been talking to the past 2 or 2 1/2 years but we only see each other over the summer when he comes by where i live and we hangout alot then but during the year when hes not here we talk on the phone almost every night ...

Something came out of my vagina..after we had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I had sex with a guy without a condom while I was intoxicated. I went to the bathroom after and went pee, and after I pee'd something came out of my vagina. He claims he didn't cum, and he promised if he did that he would pull out. I'm kind of ...

Can't reach a climax...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 376 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I just became sexually active about a month ago. The problem that I am having is that, I am totally turned on, and it feels really good, but I can't get off before he does, even if he is pleasuring me in other ways, I still can't reach climax. ...

Sexual problems with my new hubby...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My husband can't touch my pubic area, she eldom touches my breasts, and he hasn't had sex with me for 30 months. We have only been married 34 months. Before marriage we had sex daily. He can't ejaculate in me either....

Blood in my discharge...am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 377 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - hi im 18 and about 2 mnths ago i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend i lost my virginty to him and now im experiencing back problems, my period was a day or late and i'v had blood in my discharge.. could i be pregnant please help?...

I don't seem to please her sexually!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys I need a little help with something you see I met this wonderful girl... she used to be all depressed but now she says that I make her happy. But now all of a sudden we have had sex and I gave her a lot of pleasure but now... She says that ...

Why do people think you are gay because you like to wear kinky things or like to have things inserted into the anus?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 375 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Why do people think you are gay because you like to wear kinky things or like to have things inserted into the anus. More so people think this when it's a male like me. When it comes to a female they can be classed as a s**t or s**t. I have fo...