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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Before we were married, my wife had sex with my friend. It feels weird to all of us but her!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - When we were younger and single, my wife and I had a very on and off relationship. During one of the "off" times, she had sex twice with my best friend. Time has passed and my friend and I have both gotten married but since that time, our f...

Sex with my ex. Why do I keep falling into the same old trap?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - Ex-advice please.. My ex and I split mutually about 5 mnths ago.We still keep in contact, speak every so often..and when we see each other more than often we end up sleeping together.We know its not the wise thing to do but we can't help it.We ge...

I hardly have to touch my boyfriend and he's already done!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Is there anything I can do to stop my bf having an orgasm so quickly? It's not nice for me and sex lasts 10 seconds! I hardly touch him and he's already there! It takes me ages to get turned on, so I get nothing from it! Please help me!!! x...

Is a year long enough to wait before becoming intimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1163 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Do you think a year if a long enough time to wait before becoming physically intimate with your boyfriend? It doesn't necessarily have to be sex, but just intimate touching? Thanks...

My partner is cagey about why he needed condoms when he went away...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1138 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend recently went away for almost a month and he claims that he has not cheated. He gives me conflicting responses to the number of condoms he has, the amount we use and the reason he had them while away. I have been giving him oral sex for ...

Why won't my bf let me give him oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1040 days ago

29 October 2005 (F) - Im sixteen and have been in a steady relationship for a month.I want to give my boyfriend oral sex but he doesn't want me to. What's wrong with me?...

Sex seven times in a day amounted to "rejection", to hear my boyfriend tell it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - My bf and I are having a hard time lately. Yesterday when I asked for a cuddle instead of sex, he commented that 'he should be used to being rejected by me sexually' . I dont understand, We had already had sex 7 times!! that day. What is going wrong ...

My wife said she'd been with 15 guys before me, but it turns out to have been 50!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1167 days ago

28 October 2005 (M) - Before I got married I asked my wife about her sexual past and I shared mine with her. She told me she was with 15 guys or so. That was twice as many partners as I had and I thought as long as she was honest upfront that would be fine. I asked ...

What do you call the sex you have when you're not actually having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - Me and my bf both want to wait til we are married to have sex, so we have pretnd sex. Is there a name for this and what else can I do to get him to orgasm? ...

I'm worried about the bend in my willie. What do women think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

27 October 2005 (M) - My question is to girls. Do they really mind about the size or shape of a man's penis? This is really very embarrasing to me to talk about, but here goes. My penis is screwed to one side like a bannana. It's not small at all, but I'm too scared to ...

Is my foreskin OK?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Hi, I am 14 years old and i am concerned about the fact that my foreskin does not overlap my penis' head...is there something wrong with my foreskin or am I just being paranoid...

Love my relationship, love to be touched, but I have no sexual drive any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1170 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a man I love to pieces, he makes me feel so alive, loved and amazing. I believe him when he says I make him feel the same. We spend a lot of time together doing romantic coupley things, but when it comes to...

First-time sex. What should I be expecting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1170 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I know this sounds like a stupid question but, when you first have sex, does it hurt at all? And when you get pregnant, how painful is it and what are the chances that it won't all the go the way you expect it to? Thanks!...

I think I come too soon and I need some HELP...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - Whenever I have sex I COME within 2-5min (first time was 20min after that it was 2-5min). :( I know this sucks real bad and I want to know what I can do to longer my time while having sex with my GF. I do everything else with her and she is pleased ...

Does anyone have answers to my questions about my penis?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Hi I wanna ask 3 questions about Sex. I hope I'll get best replies and answers of them. 1.My first question is about my penis size. Well I'm 22 and I dont know, my penis dont grow. It's the same as like when I was 14 years old. As flaccid it's les...

What should I do if my guy wants to have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1143 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I'm still a virgin, but the guy I'm currently in a relationship with isn't. I questioned him about his sexuality and he admitted to me that he had sex once or twice a month when he was in a long relationship, our relationship has just begun and I'm ...

My boyfriend is extra-large and we're wondering... what's the average penis size?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - What is the average penis size? My boyfriend has a very large package and we were wondering what was average? This is so awkward but also when he goes all the way in I have a sharp pain but it also feels good. Why is this and is there any harm in ...

My knicker fetish... Is it a problem?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - I think I have a knicker fetish problem. When I am at my girlfriend's house alone I keep sneaking into her mum's room and going through her panty drawer. I get off on the sexy feel and smell of her knickers. I like to put her silky ones on and stro...

All the women on TV have great figures! I'm starting to feel like my boyfriend will be attracted to someone else...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 637 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I do suffer from insecurity and I guess low self-esteem and I try all the time to work on this. What I do find so difficult is simply watching TV with my partner. Everytime we get a movie to watch, there are always women with fab figures, hardly c...

I know he just wants me for sex, but when I see him I turn to jelly...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is s...

Ouch! Uncomfortable when my girlfriend is on top!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

24 October 2005 (M) - When my girlfriend is on top she makes me feel like my penis is being bent the wrong way. What can we do to help?...

Is there a woman for me, who'd love me even though sex is out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1172 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid...I am 54 years old and still a virgin, mostly because of some stupid fear of not being adequate in sex. I have only really loved once and that was when I was 21 years old and I totally screwed that relationship up even though I had ...

My online guy says he won't use a condom when we meet because he's too big!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I'm 17 and this guy is 25, we haven't met but have talked about meeting. I'm a virgin, and we have talked about having sex alot and had cyber sex. He says that he has a 9" penis when erect, (I don't know whether he's telling the truth), and he s...

He's too big for me! Or maybe I'm too small for him..?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I have recently started seeing the most amazing guy; however he has a pretty wide penis. It's a lot bigger than I'm used to. We tried to have sex the other night it didn't really fit properly and it was painful. I did not have this problem with my ...

Who should have the condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - This probably sounds stupid, but who is supposed to carry a condom: the female or the male?...

We don't have sex as often as I'd like. Is it because my boyfriend is tired?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1173 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, who I really like. We have had sex a number of times, but not as often as I'd like. I don't want to pressure him, but I think I may have scared him, as when he enters me it really hurts. Could this be the ...

I'm disgusted and hurt that my husband visited a prostitute, then lied about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I found out five weeks ago that my husband visited a prostitute in February. He claimed he couldn't do anything as he wasn't aroused. It now transpires that indeed he was able to climax, as she perfomed a hand job on him !! I feel so disguste...

Sex should be a pleasure, but my wife has serious hang-ups...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - My wife and I are 45 and 44. 2nd marriage for both. My wife (whom I love dearly) is EXTREMELY naive about sex in general. She won't go down on me and doesn't like me to go down on her (which I truly enjoy). "It's nasty". I tried to get her to tweak ...

Should I have sex with my boyfriend. If so, where?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - I need to know if I should have sex with my boyfriend. I'm 16; he is 18. If I should or decide to, where should we do it at? What do I do physically with him?...

Orgasm, yes. Orgasm during sex... well, No. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1169 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - I am 26 year old with a 5 year old daughter. I have been having sex for approximately 12 years and have never climaxed while having sex. I can have a clitoral orgasm (only when I do it), but can not have an orgasm while haveing sex. My fiance ...

My online chat-guy turned out to be 40, and he convinced me to have sex with him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - H, I'm 16 years old and in May this year I met a guy over the net and we got on very well for about 3 months and we decided to meet. Then I discovered that he had lied about his age. When we met in August he told me he was 40 years old. He ...

I'm plenty hard when I wake up in the mornings, but when I go to have sex... Nothing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1171 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - Hi all!. I have a huge problem. I am 21 years old and i am a virgin ("kinda"i will explain). I had 2 sexual experiences in my life. One was when I was 14-15 with a prostitute and could not cum! And the other was when I was 18 with my gf (we h...

I want to enjoy sex when I start having it, but right now it's not good at all...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - This is a sexual question... When I think about my future and having sex, I always get the feeling that I'm not going to enjoy it. When I'm in the mood to do something sexual, I usualy finger myself, but it doesn't give me any pleasure at all....

Since having the baby 7 years ago, I'm not interested in sex any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1174 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, after having a baby 7 years ago I have lost my feeling to have sex. I don't seem to want it anymore. I don't feel normal. Now me and my partner are arguing about it....

I fantasise that my girlfriend is with a guy who's got more to play with than I have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1174 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - I have a beautiful girlfriend I love to bits, but I keep getting strange sexual feelings that I don't think are normal. It happens when I masturbate and make love to her from behind. I keep thinking about another guy fucking her and her really e...

Been masturbating in a different style. Will this cause me problems later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1164 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - Hello, I am 16 years old and still a virgin. I started masturbating in a different manner. I lie on a bed and rub my dick on the bed. I am afraid will I have problems in having sex?...

I'm turned on, I just don't want my boyfriend to know it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Ok, I feel like im ready to go on to the next level with my boyfriend (fingering, etc) but I'm really embarrassed about getting "wet" and I'm afraid it might gross him out or something, he thinks I dont get turned-on by him, but thats not the case, ...

Too embarrassed to admit I don't know what a "69" is...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1176 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend has said that he would really like to do "69" with me, but i dont know what it is and I feel too stupid to ask!...

I'm addicted to my sex toys to the point where I've lost interest in men!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Last year I brought my first sex toy from Ann Summmers and I enjoyed it so much that I now have a large collection of toys. However, I am now addicted to them and I use them at least three times a day. It has come to the point that I even use them ...

I've got so little pubic hair, I feel like a school boy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I have a slight problem in the pubic hair department-I hardly have any and im 23 years of age. I've just started my first sexual experience with a girl. When we got naked for the first time she thought that I had shaved them off and they were slowly ...

I love when he goes down on me, but I just don't come!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1176 days ago

19 October 2005 (?) - Hello, This a sexual question. why is it that everytime my feller goes down on me I can never let my self come to an orgasm. It feels all weird, I start shaking, then it starts hurting a bit!. It's really enjoyable at first but then I have to...

When my girlfriend gives me oral sex, I just can't get off!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1120 days ago

19 October 2005 (M) - When my girlfriend gives me a blowjob, I can never get off. All the times I get right to the point that I would normally get off but it won't happen. What could be the problem? I love it when she does it, it feels good. It just wont finish it. ...

I'm just totally not into anything sexual with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is turning 19. It's his birthday in one week and we've decided to take our relationship to the 3rd level. We've been going out for about 3 months and I love him so much I would risk my life for his without even ...

Is the boy I'm dating gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1151 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am unsure if the boy I'm dating is gay. When we first met. my friend said 'don't bother because he is gay'. When we first had sex he asked me if I'd ever had anal sex. Then when we finally got intimate he fingered me but was just staring ...

My boyfriend says he's not sexually attracted enough to have sex, but wants to marry me anyway...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1177 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My friend and I have been dating for 10 month we share many interests and have very similar backgrounds. But this is the issue he said he doesn't feel so much excited with me, and as a result he doesn't get hard enough. He's not sexually attr...

Our threesome with another woman was a mistake. I can't stop picturing them together...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I am having a hard time getting over the past. My husband and I had a threesome 2 mons before our wedding. I love him very much, but cannot get over the images of the two of them that evening (the other was a woman). It is hard for me to become ...

My relationship with my bf is great, except that he has almost no interest in sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1169 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - I know this question was recently asked, but my boyfriend of almost 4 years has a very low sex drive and he is only 32. We have sex about an average of once a month. We have talked about this for a couple of years now, with no improvements. There is ...

Are "escorts" just prostitutes by another name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - My friend has hired an escort - and I tried to stop him but he did it anyway - are escorts really just prostitutes? He says he's lonely after losing his girlfriend but is it really just to have sex? Is that what escorts are for really?...

Can I recover from the shock and loss of trust after my husband visited a prostitute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1175 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - My husband (together for a total of 10 years) has just told me he slept with a prostitute and thought he had caught something but had not. We have two young children. He promises it was just the once and would never do it again. We were having ...

Obsessed with my girlfriend's sexual history. Should I look at the hidden computer files?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 619 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - I have had problems with my girlfriend's sexual past before and sometimes I think I am getting over it. However, last night I was using her computer and I noticed that there were some hidden files that I could not access. Judging from the file names ...