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writes: Hi, I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, who I really like. We have had sex a number of times, but not as often as I'd like. I don't want to pressure him, but I think I may have scared him, as when he enters me it really hurts. Could this be the reason? I've also noticed that he is always really tired. Could this be the reason too? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kez1984 +, writes (23 October 2005):
you prob have mismatched sex drives huni it happens perhaps u should consider getting something to use for your own pleasure like visit ann summers or learn to pleasure yourself. I think this is perhaps the only way you will be satisfied darlin!
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reader, x_kutekitten_x +, writes (23 October 2005):
Ok, don't panic! I'm sure your boyfriend just doesn't want to pressure you! Communication is the key in any relationship, so maybe if you just talk to him about it, and discuss what you would like to do, he'll probably understand. Also, don't be afraid to tell him what hurts and what doesn't, he'll know how to pleasure you and then it will go better for you and your relationship. Don't worry if he's tired, because the chances are, he's just had a hard day at work. Massage his back for him perhaps, as this could work to your advantage and his! He will feel more relaxed, so in the mood to have sex with you! Good luck!
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