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writes: When my girlfriend is on top she makes me feel like my penis is being bent the wrong way. What can we do to help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): communicate! let her know, and experiment to see what feels good, and what doesnt.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 October 2005):
 Tell her to bend the other way! Perhaps she is leaning too far back. Both of you try moving to a better and more comfortable position while she is on top but if all else fails, try another position altogether. It certainly shouldn't hurt. Tell her that it does and work together to find a better position.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2005): If she is facing you when on top, perhaps ask her to kiss you, this means she will have to lean over and this is a usually and much easier angle for you. It is also a subtle way of getting what you want without hurting her feelings. Once she and you have mastered this technique, you can experiment. Do not tell her she is doing it wrong during sex, this is very hurtful and will probably completely ruin the mood. If you are doing something as intimiate as making love with someone, you need to be able to talk about it, when you are not having sex. Use sentences like "I like it if you do this..." and not" you hurt when you do it like that..." The previous comments were right. You need to teach her, do it uses positive comments. A womens ego is injured just as much as a mans. How would you like her to tell you what she likes? then reverse that answer for her.
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reader, pops +, writes (24 October 2005):
Talk to her while you are making love, for God's Sake! She has to learn what she can do, and what not. Only you can tell her what angle is okay, and when she is hurting you!
Her job is to teach you how to pleasure her; your job is to teach her how to pleasure you. Then, she has made a commitment to do so, and you have also made that commitment to her. Have fun. If it hurts, you are probably doing it wrong.
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reader, Ellis Mac +, writes (24 October 2005):
You have to take control from the bottom. You can manipulate the movements with your own hips, and lift her slightly with your hands to position her to a more comfortable spot. Don't worry, she'll enjoy the wriggling around.
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