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writes: Last year I brought my first sex toy from Ann Summmers and I enjoyed it so much that I now have a large collection of toys. However, I am now addicted to them and I use them at least three times a day. It has come to the point that I even use them in the toilets at work and am not interested in men. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): yes you are normal men havent a clue how to make us happy so if you can do it yourself carry on
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): try using toys with your partner
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (22 October 2005):
 Although we all like the feeling of stuff like that, it does sound like this is getting a bit out of control. There is a time and place for everything and you need to get some help, you can't be doing it in the toilets!
I'm glad you've found something to pleasure you so much (who needs men, aye?!) but you have to chill out with all this and don't let it go from some harmless fun to a full-blown obsession. Good luck
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (22 October 2005):
 Ahem. Well, at the risk of being labelled a prude, no, it's not "normal". I wouldn't mean to imply that you're some sort of deviate, but your use appears to me to be excessive. Your toys should just be... well, toys. Something that you enjoy from time to time, in the same way you treat yourself to a dessert after a nice dinner.
Masturbating at work - whether or not you use your toys - seems a bit excessive. I can't help thinking that you're going to get sprung in the ladies' by a gossipy workmate. Perhaps a bit of balance is needed.
Sex toys are indeed incredible and can give you breathtaking orgams, but they're a bit of a shallow pleasure. Other than what they do (amazingly well), they're not good company for discussing the plot of a book, or enjoying a pleasant autumn afternoon with, or exploring a new restaurant together.
I'd say that you should try to limit yourself to using your toys at home, and not to the exclusion of other social activities.
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