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writes: I have a slight problem in the pubic hair department-I hardly have any and im 23 years of age. I've just started my first sexual experience with a girl. When we got naked for the first time she thought that I had shaved them off and they were slowly growing back.The problem is she told me she would like to see my pubes burgeon into a hairy bush, but I know it's not going to happen.Is there anything that can make the hairs around my little fella grow, as I feel like a school boy!
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reader, medic999  +, writes (30 March 2008):
Oh and by the way, Minoxidil, diazoxide, and pinacidil all stimulate hair growth HOWEVER PLEASE PLEASE SPEAK TO YOUR DOCTOR FIRST as there drugs were NOT originally designed to do so, it was only discovered later accidentally that they do have such an effect!! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Contrary to common popular believe.....not everyone develops pubic hair much at all let alone at the same time!
Some people tend to go their lives without much growing, it's normal and depends on a balance of many factors....i'm not going to bore you with medical terminology but for example, pubic hair strops growing at a certain length, this varies considerably for people so perhaps your 'limit' tends to be much lower....secondly maybe there are fewer hair folicals in your genital area than in other people, again this is normal, some men grow forests down there in a matter of days, other's grow football pitches in a year or two, sorry to be so crude about it but honestly buddy don't worry about it, i've read other people's answer to you and their totally correct too! A woman generally doesn't tend to be appealed visually as a man does so even if you were hairy, she would smile and you'd be in bed anyway, want my advice? accept that you're the way you are that you're different to alot of people! :)
If you're worried go and speak to your doctor (if in the USA) or your GP (if in the UK) and explain, there are certain 'mixes' that can be used apparently to support and encourage hair growth but...swelling, itchiness and redness as well as blotches are sometimes symptoms so do you really want to risk your sexual performance in general for just pleasing 1 girl! in my experience women prefer shaved anyway, but ermmm that's possibly just me! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): Well don't know what is normal but I shave mine off every couple of days. All of my girlfriends have liked it, so don't worry even if your current girl friend has a problem others will not
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (22 October 2005):
 Don't let it get you down. Every man is different and you happen to be less-hairy than other guys. Um, so what? Women are far less visually-oriented about sexual things than men are, so ask yourself: How much time does your girlfriend spend gazing at your groin anyway?
Sure, some women prefer more hair, but then some women persuade their men to get the full wax, in order to look more like you do now! Accept that it's the way you're made, and focus on being irresistable in other ways. Chances are that either your girlfriend doesn't notice, doesn't care, or will soon get used to it because she loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): Hi me again,would like to say thanks for the replys but i dont really want to have to go the docs
If i tell my girlfriend my prob and she says thats fine,im still worried that at the back of her mind she might be disapointed.If a hairy cock turns her on she might be tempted to look elsewhere for a proper man as im like a boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): If you are both happy together it really will not matter.
Im a female and must admit i love to play with a blokes hairy cock.Its so much better when when you have pubes to play with!!
Pops mentions drugs you can take,maybe someone could give this fella a few examples of what he can take?
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reader, not again +, writes (20 October 2005):
Some women do have preferences with male hair- be it chest ort pubic- but I'd say most don't care. Why should you be self conscious/ ashamed of how your body is? If I were you (and the chick brings it up again) I'd just say "this is how my body it" and ask her not to criticise it. Especially as this is your first sexual experience- you want to have fun and fall in love!! not be thinking about something as silly as pubic hair! By all means, try Pops advice, but at the end of the day don't focus on the one thing you're unhappy with. Pubic hair is a small thing compared with all the stuff happening in the world today.
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reader, pops +, writes (20 October 2005):
Go see a doctor and have him run tests. Hair is a function of the male sex hormone, testosterone. Your doctor can give you shots to boost the amount of testosterone in your system and make you grow hair where hair now exists. There may also be drugs available now to stimulate your Pituitary gland to issue commands to your glands to produce more testosterone.
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