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Who should have the condoms?

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Question - (23 October 2005) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2005)
A female , *ohn_lover writes:

This probably sounds stupid, but who is supposed to carry a condom: the female or the male?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005):

both. guys should have them if they expect to get any, and girls should have them anyway. rapists are more likely to wear a condom if you've got one handy.

and beyond the scary rapist comment

it's always a good idea to be prepared. don't expect one or the other to provide. if you think you need one, bring one yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2005):

Who ever wants the safe sex!

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A female reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (24 October 2005):

Put it this way, you met this guy and really liked him. He asked for sex, none of you had condoms on you. Then when you miss your period you know you're pregnant. My advice, always carry them!

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A reader, helpfull girl +, writes (24 October 2005):

any one carrys a condom safe sex its called and everyone should want safe sex! so yep both sex's.

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A reader, schlottjl United States +, writes (23 October 2005):

schlottjl agony auntWhom ever wants no STDs and babies.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005):

Condoms should be carried by anyone who wants to have sex, since they're needed for that. So, assuming you're talking about something consensual, you should both have them around.

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A female reader, lulu +, writes (23 October 2005):

it shouldnt matter, if you dont want to get an STD or pregnant then you both should carry them. Its playing safe that counts!

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (23 October 2005):

Bev Conolly agony auntBoth of you. It doesn't matter whether you're a man or a woman. If you're having sex with someone, there's a good chance that at least one of you will have a penis; therefore the two of you will need condoms.

Particularly with younger adults - and teens - they don't put enough thought into the contraception/STD situation until it's too late, and end up having dangerously unprotected sex. Ask any 17-year-old and they'll tell you that you should use a condom, but how many 17-year-olds actually have a supply?

So just be ready. Carry a few with you if you feel there's a chance you might have sex with someone. Do remember, though, that condoms "age". They're affected by heat and time, so that a condom that's been in a guy's wallet for six months is going to be less reliable than a fresh one out of the box.

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