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writes:Actually I am stuck up in a problem, which I expect that u may b able to solve.See. I had met a guy in delhi. He worked in a shop and we didn't know each other. When I returned back to bombay, I was not able to forget him as HE also looked at me in such a way.I wrote him a letter but on the name of an AJNABI. bcoz I didn't know his name. He then started giving me missed calls. I came to know his number from the caller id. I then called him up and we spoke to each other.From that moment we became friends. He used to call me up everyday.Then one day I proposed him. He said NO. He says his parents won't accept me. It is not a matter of qualification bcoz I am more qualified then him so that's not the question. Then too we continued our contacts as friends.I told him to do sumthing which would make him famous in his life. so he joined a class for further studies.Now he has completed the course and again continuing his work in the shop. But the case is that now he has become very busy that he doesn't have time to contact me.His father doesnt like that he speaks to girls. Then too he used to speak to me. Then 1st time when he came to bombay to meet me, he had brought some gift for me but i did not accept. He wanted to meet me again, but then we both didn't have time.Again after some months he came to meet me. That time he behaved with me very closely by touching me. He spoke to me and behaved as if I were his girlfriend. His friends and my friends explained him that this kind of talking on phones everyday can only be with some one special. I felt so good when I was with him both the time. He cared for me always. He always does what ever I told him.He now also speaks to me but a little less. His friend says he likes me but will never say. Can you advice me some working steps to know whether he loves me or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDoes anyone feel that he loves me or not?whatever detail I provided in my question from that.
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reader, jayd  +, writes (17 October 2007):
I really cant say as regards the tratditions that surraounds dating in Dehli but i believe you have to take the bold step by ,confronting and making tim tell you if he is actually refusing your proposal bcos of his parents or becos he doesnt fancy. He should be man enuf to tell his parents if he truly wants to b with you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Its simple really you just ask him! If you have been close kissing and stuff then i'd say he feels something for you.
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