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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:HELP!!!! Before I left for college (1,000 miles and 19.5 hours away) in August, my boyfriend and I got engaged. I have always been faithful in all of my previous relationships, but they never lasted long and I would find someone new and usually we ended up sleeping together even we weren't dating. I thought things had changed with my finace. I really do love him. But now, three months after I left for school, I slept with one of my really attractive friends. In addition to my infidelity, he has a 4 month old with his girlfriend. I didn't initiate the relationship, but I still know what I am doing is wrong. The problem is that the sex is amazing and we both want to keep doing it, but we both feel guilty. I am no longer turned on by my finace, but I still want to be with him and my friend still wants to be with his girlfriend. I am a freshman and he is a senior. What the heck do I do!!!?!??!??!?!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): It doesn't sound like you are ready to be married. Most people think that an engagement is just to by time to plan the actual wedding. They could not be more wrong. I hope that you reconsider getting married until you have grown up a bit. Try being in a monogamous , faithful relationship for at least one year.
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