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How can I be myself and not loose my lover?

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Question - (22 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2007)
A female Morocco age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i had find my great love in net ,so everyone of us

want to know every detail abt the other partner. i was feeling at ease with him coz we had getting along with each other but ,yeasterday, he had ask me to show him my bra , he mentionned that he want to know my personality from it.i didn't decline his ask and told him that i will never do it coz am not convinced abt showing my under wear in net.

then , he startd a challenge during a month, he told me :" we will see who is the winner me or u and i will also resure myself abt how much u love me".

i will not do it , coz i never take back my words but i dont want to make him angry what can i do ? plz i need urgent advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007):

I would have to agree with phill. If you are still wanting to continue what you have with this guy then send him a pic of just your bra - I have to say though you shouldnt be afraid to make him angry, if he is that easy to make unhappy then its hardly worth the energy. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007):

I don't understand how he could possibly find out your personality from looking at your bra! I think he really wants to see your breasts - and he will not be able to tell your personality from looking at them either.

However, you can easily judge HIS personality by his request.

I suggest you take a photograph of a bra on a table and send that to him. He may even have a sense of humour.

Phil

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (22 October 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntDon't do anything you're not comfortable with. If he insists on testing your bounderies, tell him to take a long walk on a short pier.

Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007):

Please don't do it. You don't know him well. He could harm you beyond your imagination. Like posting your pictures on the internet or maybe something worse. Salam

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