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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Can I still get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me four days ago. we had some rough time but we finally getting better (at least i thought we were). My birthday was three days before and we had a good time, but he seemed a little distant. The ...

Like me, like me, or lusty lusty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, ...

Guy who says I am his future girlfriend but cannot date me now due to the ex baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Recently, after knowing a cute male coworker for awhile he asked me for a kiss at happy hour. I did not kiss him since he had a girlfriend but they were breaking up. Anyhow later the girlfriend discovered she was pregnant so I really did not want ...

Does he really only want to be friends or does he just want time to do his own thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend broke up nearly six months ago now, but have remained friends since. His reasons for the breakup were that he wanted to concentrate on himself(his family, studies etc). For many of these months i was const...

I don't know if he ever really loved me which sucks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi so there is so much going on in my life know first of all i had a boyfriend and he was my first one but we live together and I told my ex best friend and she told him and he denyed it and broke up with me this has happened 3 times and he has ...

He's ignoring me - what's going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Okay, there's this guy I really like. We've known each other for about five years and have become really good friends (he's a former college prof of mine; I know, I know, age difference, blahblah) and we get along great. I honestly have no problem ...

I need your help guys... How do I make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing a boys in July and he asked me out in November. The long and short of it is we're both really shy and even though I know he likes me and he knows I like him we're finding it hard to make the first mood. Gawd knows how Im gonna do ...

He sexually harrasses me, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - there is this guy at school, he is my friend (or at least he used to be) i am not sure if i consider him a friend anymore because all he ever does is sexually harrasse me! he is always trying to get me to either sleep with him, give him oral, or ...

Does my friend (married to female) have unusual gay tendencies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - My friend is a bodybuilder at the gym I work out at. He have a pretty wife that works out there as well. He tells me he has anal sex with her most of the time - which is not ofter (every few weeks). He always complements me I my ass (I am a male - ...

My b/f needs to be shocked into going on a diet. How do I do that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Well people may seem this as mean but i really need advice on this. One of my best friends is abit over weight by that i mean she is 13 and a size 12 or 14 in adults. I never saw that as a problem she is still a great friend it never changed ...

Its been 4 months and I still think of him every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Okay, this is my first post on this site! I really need some advice though. In about June last year, i started seeing this guy exclusively, we weren't officially "going out" but i think that's because he's 2 years older than me (i'm 15, he's 17) and ...

She ditched our friendship for a guy, now he dumpted her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - ok so basically throughout high school i there were 4 close friends. one got a bf a few years ago and decided to ditch the rest of us. we never heard from her, but tried to invite her out. she never did come out, her bf was her life and she had no ...

Is there a chance this could work for us again...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Me and my ex husband were married 6 years and we ended it with a nasty divorce, for the first 5 months after we were enemies, after that we started to get close and closer. It's been almost 4 years and we have never slept together and we have become ...

In a rut....please give some advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, This is my first time posting on a forum like this so please be gentle. I just can't seem to get any solid advice from my friends or family. For the longest time I did great with dating. I lots of friends that were women and I had lots of ...

I'm just curious.... but could he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Could a 10th grade boy like a 13 years old (7th grade) girl? Just curious. Whenever he sees me he looks in a very cute way at me and always smiles at me. I'm tall, pretty and I usually seem a happy and friendly person. He sometimes looks at my ...

I love her but I feel she still loves him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I really like this girl. And before she liked me. I was too shy and she got with this other guy for a while but now they have broken up and I have plucked up the courage to speak to her and call her. Things were going okay. She dropped hints but now ...

Who knows... is she or is she not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi there I had been dating my now wife for 3 months and I asked her to marry me, 1 year later this came true. I am happy and everything is going well. The problem I have is that last year about 8 months into our relationship we went through a bad sp...

Am I a bad person for losing my virginity while drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy for about a month now, but i've known him for years. he is a really nice guy and i like him. but this past weekend my friend had a party, so i invited him. we both had had a lot to drink, and we ended up in her parents ...

I see my self in a mirror and I start thinking that I'm ugly...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here, but I have been hanging around for a while now and I like the advice and help given. I'm 14 years old and when ever I'm doing anything, or even just doing nothing for that matter I don't care about...

Help! sexuality, love and confusion from a 15 year old girl. Save me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - So... I'm 15. I find it hard to see what there is special in a relationship other than touching one another. I really dont understand what the difference between love and like is. Because i love my friends, and i could love someone im in a rel...

Will I be stuck in this rut forever where I don't meet many girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - -Nearly 22 -Never had a girlfriend -Kissed once ( drunk ) -I really struggle talking to girls -No friends that are girls, not even 'Sorta' friends -Never approached a girl, but read everything on how to do it lol I feel a big void, never ha...

Should I lose my virginity to my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Should I lose my virginity to my friend? I'm 19 and I feel it's about time, but I've never been in a relationship loving enough to want to. I kind of want to get it over and done with so its not a big deal any more. And I feel really comfortable ...

Should I go for the ladies' man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Should I go for the ladies' man? Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but...

Why is he going cold on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hello there! I've got a bit of boy trouble, I'm 16 by the way..to make a long story short basically I was seeing this lad we weren't officaly going out but we practically were because we were only seeing each other we just hadn't committed to the "...

Could she be covering up her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for 3 years, and I want it to be more. We have talked about 'getting it on' (as lovers!) with each other, but she keeps avoiding the question, either age gap problems (I'm 29, she's 19), or other stuff! Could she ...

Is a woman's age a society issue??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Is a female turning 30+ a bad thing in society? Are women over 30 a bad thing? Do guys prefer girls in there 20s because I know a few guys who ask out girls in there 20s. Where does that leave me?...

Should I end this FWB relationship or tell him I want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am currently in a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm going thru a divorce and he just got out of a serious relationship. On one hand, I am content with our relationship being casual...I don't want to rush into a full blown relationship just ...

Should I be impolite and indifferent to them or be as friendly as I can without showing them special interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I have agreed to stay friends with the man I used to date the last year. Although we are going out sometimes, we are only friends. Although I have told him my true feelings in the past, he did't really change his mind and now I accept him as a ...

Should I take a claim out against the other firm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I was in a minor car crash on sat nite when out in the town with my friends. We were in a black taxi and another taxi company crashed into the side of us, flinging us all off our seats. I cut my face on the handle of the taxi and it's quite a nasty ...

We're friends, but I had silent, stronger feelings, she now has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I have this friend, we know each other for a year, and let's just say that our relationship has been very good. We're friends, sometimes the weird flirting thing would happen, even though we've never tried going out before, and well... I thought I ...

How can I date his brother without hurting or losing my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - A friend of mine has told me that he has a crush on me. I don't feel the same way and I have told him this. However now I have a thing for his younger brother. Is there any possible way that I could try to date the brother without losing or hurting ...

Controlling g/f of my friend is threatening our friendship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - my friend is making a big mistake!!! he is 19, and in pre-med school. His stupid girlfriend is a controling phycopath (i dont care abour spelling) she thinks she can control where he works, who he talks to, who he hangs out with, when they can hang ...

I feel undesireable as a friend & a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I don't feel my friends or parents really udnerstand it, and I was hoping you would. I feel frustrated because I ahven't had a boyfriend for almost two years now. I am about to begin student teaching and I feel nervous and unsure of myself. I fe...

I created a fake ID and now I don't know how to tell everyone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this problem.. but here goes anyway. I created a fake myspace profile around a year ago. At the time, I'd lost most of my friends, social life and honestly, I was so depressed and the fake seemed a ...

How to pull back..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am a late bloomer so to speak, and 2 days ago I had my first real date. I was so nervous I thought I would die! I know, funny for my age. Nothing happened, not even a kiss (I have problem with intimacy), but I had fun. Anyhow, we'll be going on ...

Two guys like me and I can't choose.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a great guy, even though we haven't known each other for that long our realationship is going good; but now my boy bff is telling me he likes me and that I'm beautiful and stuff. So now I'm starting to like him back, but my ...

Amazing sex suggestions anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so I want to hook up with this guy really badly. I'll be honest, I'm just looking for sex. However, I want to really please him and have it be amazingggg. Any suggestions? ...