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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Did I lose a buddy? Or a love interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm sooo confused! I've known this guy since like May 2008. We hit it off pretty good..talked and text for a long, long time before we even met, just recently. We went out on two dates and it was cool. I started to like him a whole lot but noticed ...

I want to call her, but I also think if she really cared she would have called by now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hello Everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this as I am completely lost right now and could really use some advice from an outside party other than my friends and family. I know this is a long post but please, if you have the time, read this ...

Is confidence ultimately the most important quality women are looking for in a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hello. I'm a little low on self-esteem at the moment. There's a woman at work who I thought was sending me indicators of interest so I asked her out via e-mail and was rejected. Since then she has barely made eye contact with me. This has gone on ...

I'm his 10! How do I show him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - So there's this guy, and from talking to him and overhearing his conversations, i have determined that we're so much alike that it's almost weird. how can i show him that i'm perfect for him?...

Do I bitch slap my bitchy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - ok im really pissed of at the moment.heres the deal: a week ago a friend(#1) and i were in my friend #2's house and when it came the time to leave #1 asked me that wen i phoned home cud i ask my mum to leave her the extra few miles to her house.i ...

He's so nervous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - he says he likes me..he gets really really nerves around me.. he hardly talks i always ask questions and when am not looking he would just stare at me till i catch him staring and then he would turn his head.. he gets so nervous even on the phone i ...

Is he just really nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I will try to make this as short as possible, but I apologize in advance if this turns into a small essay. It is going to sound all over the place because I'm going to mention certain things that have happened. This is also my first question on here ...

How do I tell my friend I've got my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I don't know what to do. I have this friend that yea she's nice and i can talk to her about anything...except periods, anything sex related, or anything dealing with body parts. She absolutely terrified to say one word. If she asks me what's ...

Is she keeping her emotions in check and waiting until my divorce is final?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Let me tell my story. I need some insight from someone on this situation. I have written on this forum previously. I am in a long-distance relationship with a single mom, whose son has deployed to Iraq. We are high school classmates and hadn't ...

I feel that the feeling of being forced to have a son will never let him love me the way I want him to love me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been together for 3 years now. The 1st month we were together of course we were so happy so happy that we got pregnant really quickly we met in December by January I was pregnant. He was happy at 1st was willing to tell ...

How am I to survive the next 9 days...???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - I'm going thru a bit of an emotional rolleroaster at the moment, my girlfriend of six months has just flown off to vegas to see her ex, she needs to find out if she still has feelings or if he will now commit to her in a way that she wants ...

He's a hottie and I want to know him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - i cant stop thinking about this guy. Hes so fit lol, and seems really nice. Well i see him at my bus stop sometimes, not all the time ive seen him about 5/6 times when im waiting to catch the bus to college (we go different colleges though)...

I want to be friends but not quite sure how to do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I like(d). I mean, I still like him and he's sort of interested in me, just not interested in a relationship; not with anyone though so I don't feel too bad about it. When we first discussed this, he said he was interested in ...

Just finished reading a romantic book and now I'm feeling all melancholy...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - hi just recently i read this romance book that i can really relate myself to the girl it was the best book ever (twilight) and i finished it in a day but as soon as id finished it it was really weird because i felt so sad and melancholy because the ...

Do you think he might still have some feelings for me or is it only because we have children together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I were divorced in July 2008. He left me while I was in recovery for an addiction to pain meds. It was a hard break-up and he said he doesn't love me any more. Since then we have become friends and he calls and comes over for lunch ...