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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I think I'm in love with a friend I met on the internet

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5 January 2009 (F) - I met a friend on the internet a few months ago, and since then we've been chatting a lot and having video conversations. Sometimes he calls me dear and tells me he thinks I'm amazing, and I've never met anyone like him. But he lives in another ...

Is he just not that interested or did I scare him off by suggesting we meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Met a guy a while ago through work and recently added him on my Facebook. He didn't remember me but accepted my request and messaged me. We then exchanged a couple messages and he started asking what my weekend plans were. I told him and asked about ...

I told him I liked him... where do I go from here?

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5 January 2009 (F) - Hi there. I have a typical teenage trauma for you. Ok im 16 and for the last year or so I have been taking to this guy, mainly through text and msn, but I have met him, although this is difficult as hes a weekly boarder. I always thought he showed ...

I dated him for 3 weeks in May 2008, I didn't know what I was getting myself into...

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5 January 2009 (F) - I've asked a ton of questions on here for some advice, but I've never really got the help that I needed. In May 2008, I *unofficially* dated this guy, we were friends first, I was 16 he was 16, but we just didnt want to rush into anything incase ...

I really need help with this urgently before tomorrow (2nd posting) thanks!

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5 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings and ...

Had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is sara and im 22 I have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that w...

How do you tell another guy you like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - How do you actually tell a guy that you like him without actually telling him straight up.. by the way I'm a guy....

Why all the mixed messages from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Here is my problem... Colleagues and friends with a Virgoan man for 3 years (him 39 and me 42), occasional mild flirting from him but nothing more since both in relationships. Both our relationships ended (at different times) and friendsh...

I just found out he has feelings for another GUY!!! I'm in shock!

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5 January 2009 (F) - I feel weird posting something on here, but I really don't know what else to do. I had been in an amazing and strong relationship. He is my best friend and knows me better than anyone. It's hard to explain how close we are, or were. I'm a senior ...

Lost My Virginty at 14, Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...

Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl?

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5 January 2009 (F) - Do you think your best friend would risk a friendship if he really liked the girl? or is "I don't wanna risk the friendship thing" a lie? This particular guy fancied me A LOT in the past, so it's not like he's never felt nothing for me. He'll be...

Can I ever trust my wife again or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid. This is difficult for me to talk about. For the last 3-4 years my wife became very distant and independant. She was also quite secretive about how much she earned or where she was going. Basically I could never take an interest in her....

I had a one night stand with my friend's brother.

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5 January 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand with my friend's brother recently. It was over the Christmas period. I don't know him very well, but he comes to the pub with his brother each Christmas and over the course of a few years I have always chatted with him...

Acne problem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - My best mate has really bad acne and it is ruining her love life, she fancies this boy but she's not confident to enough to talk to him or anything and she sits and cries she is so unhappy. Is there anything that can help get rid of them....

My best friend and I were in love until the new guy came along - now she loves him and I love her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5582 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Hey all. Three years ago, in the midst of highschool, I had recently just settled down into a new group of friends after moving, and all was well. I became amazingly close with this girl, who I'll call "E," and within months, the two of us were ins...

I had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me, how do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hi,my name is sara and im 22 i have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that w...

His best mate hits on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Well.. my boyfriend has been best mates with this boy for about 2-3 months, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months. Just recently His best mate has been trying it on with me touching me in inappropriate places and keeps trying to kiss ...

Should I just take him at his word?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I'm in a bit of a complicated situation. An ex of mine (whom I slept with while we were together.) has come back into my life. Our relationship was good, the break-up wasn't so great. Anyhow, he recently broke up with his newest ex and his life ...

I'm gay and want to tell one of my best friends but just don't know how to tell her. Please help!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - Ok I'm just gonna say it all at I de so bare with me. I 15 and I'm an the closet gay. I have a really really good friend who live across the road from me. We hang out all the time and go to the service station for slurpees all the time together. I ...

Do I tell her that I am a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - We are best friends, and I have pretty much fallen head over for her (and have liked her for like the last 3 years...) She is ridiculously cuddly with me, we act like a couple in many ways already. She has no idea that I am a lesbian, I was ...

I don't want to get sucked back into this situation... but what do I do about this?

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5 January 2009 (M) - Susan(32) is a woman that I dated for a while last summer. I tried to form a relationship with her but she was indecisive and ultimately, nothing happened (You can see my other questions for the situation). [moderator note: it would be helpful ...

Most of our relationship is good, except for his friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I am 27 years old and I've been married now for 17 months. We have a son whose a year. We've known each other over 10 years nad ad several attempts at a relationship before. I guess he was my first love and when we were dating in 2007 I got pregnant ...

How do I find out if he has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - ok theres this guy i like we havent known each other long but i really like him the thing is week coach together but thats the only time i see him which is like once a week and i want to hang out more but im not sure if he likes me in the same way. ...

I want to call him before his operation, he's not my boyfriend but he could be. Help me with the right words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - hey..a very good friend of mine who stays in a different city will be undergoing a small appendix operation and since i am not there with him i have decided to call him before the operation and calm him down..but i am not finding the right words..he ...

Am I a friend? more? He calls me buddy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Is he just being polite or is just taking things slow and is interested in me? We go out, we call each other back and forth just to talk, and text. He never mentions his past relationships, nor do I ask. But on these (2) dates he hasn't made a mo...

He said I was cute but he likes someone else

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5 January 2009 (F) - so there is a guy that i really really like. He is a year older than me. I meet him in the beginning of december. And we have been hanging out for a while. Just last friday he asked me if i was cute. I said yea, but i don't think u think i am cute. ...

Take the lead and ask him out?

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5 January 2009 (F) - dear,anyone i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure.we've been friends for about a year.we both have never been in a relationship and im scared to ask him out and he has not even tried. should i take the lead...

Will my friend forget me due to her new friends?

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5 January 2009 (F) - I have a friend who has limited sight in one eye,which may spread to the other eye. she has had a very hard time adjusting to this, and myself and another friend have been there for her as friends in good and bad times. She has never had a big ci...

How do I get her to be my g/f?

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5 January 2009 (M) - I'm 25 and I'm in love with my best friend.we have dated in highschool n broke up when she went to college.we been friends for 10yrs.she is always touchy feely w me.we started having sex a few months ago and bout 2 weeks ago she said she just wants ...

A way to navigate this problem with dignity?

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5 January 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm hoping you can help me with this dilemma. Let's just say I'm quite handy with the computer and media-related arts. More specifically, I'm very good with photoshop and image manipulation over the years, as it ended up bein...