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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I've never said how I really feel about him in 3 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - About 2 years ago I saw this guy and I liked him a lot, but I was really shy and couldn't tell him, or anyone. So he never knew. Then last year we were in a lot of the same classes and I got talking with him, and we became friends, we flirted a bit ...

How do you terminate a toxic friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hoping someone can help here. I have a friend who I am trying to end the friendship with as I have had enough. There are plenty of articles on how to end a relationship but not much on terminating a friendship. This girl tends to be really rude to ...

In love with my best friend who denies it, has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for about 4 years, and its getting too much to bare, and I need some advice! We're both 18 and single, and have known each other for about 15 years, since playschool really, but only best friends for about 8 ...

GF hanging out with exboyfriend - when is the line crossed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I need some input on this matter. I've been with this girl for 3 years. We live together, we love each other very much, and I am very committed to her. From the beginning of our relationship she has always maintained a friendly communication wi...

He insists he isn't playing mind games but I think he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me'' he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me nearly every time we go out. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped)..then the next wee...

Should I stop being his mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I met a guy on my University course a few years ago and have been friends with him since. He's not in all my classes but when we are, we often work together and chat alot. And it didnt take long before I got his number so we can arrange meetings out ...

What do I do now after massive fall out?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

I'd like her to reduce her "game time" when I'm around..should I have said something sooner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - There is a girl whom I met whilst in my last year of sixth form and have been friends with ever since. We get on fairly well and have recently been in each other's company more. Unfortunately, she is a big fan of computer games and plays it all the ...

I am afraid that I will never get the chance to go out with him once I go back to school.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have a guy who I see at the at the local health club I go to. I really, really like him and I think he likes me, too. But I start school soon so I won't get to see him any more because he goes at the health club when I am at school (and only then ...

Wanting more than what he will give

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy since September. We're not boyfriend/girlfriend we're friends and it tears me up inside because I have deep feelings for him. We have had sex a couple of times and it's like the way he treats me, no other boyfriend I had ...

Xoxo--I think he likes me what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Ok well yesterday my friend slept over my house. We got bored so we decided to go on the computer. After awhile this boy started talking to us on msn. I thought he looked fimilar in his display pic. Well she asked him his named and as I thought it ...

I don't want to run into the ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Earlier this week, a friend of mine at university suggested that all the guys go on a trip to Preston, a city in the North west of England. According to him, there are 4 women to every 1 man. I'm not sure I believe that, but that doesn't bother ...

He's confusing me so much! I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - *He stares at me all the time with a small smile on his face. *When I catch him staring, he keeps on staring till I look away. *Walks across me sometimes for no reason. *Walks by me so close that our shoulders touch. *Shows-off sometimes. *H...

Sort of caught in the middle with 2 girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I got a teansy problem, okay theres this girl i relaly am starting to like, My friend is her best friend so obviousl she knows that i like her, but isnt really interested in me, but i do have a chance, she told me well theres tis other girl i kno...

He has a g/f but gives off signals he's interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hi! :) I hope you lot can help me with this... There is a guy in my class who I really liked, (but never spoke to for a whole year) but upon hearing he had a girlfriend, I decided to forget about him. Lately (for about the past 4 months) I'...

I hate my love life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - i have two conflicting issues: I am the member of a sorority at Penn but during my 2nd and 3rd year I realized that things made me grow apart and sometimes it seemed like I wasn't a fit, although I was still friends with quite a few of the girls...

Any suggestions on what my next move should be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Okay, it would be nice to get some advice on this shit, I like this girl, really like her not some stupid girl like the usual, I care deeply for her and I want to ask her out, I talked to her and did the normal thing, I told her I TOOK A LIKING TO ...

Am I just someone for him to talk to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been talking to this guy(getting to know him)for about 2 months. We have hung out a couple of times,he has told me he has a crush on me, we text and talk on the phone almost every day. He calls me sweetheart, hun, gorgeous, sweetie and ...

Should I tell him how I feel? Is this relationship possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have graduated from college and have known one of my profs for about five years now. We've really hit it off and become good friends, but now I think it's becoming something more. When I was his student, he would pick on me in front of the cla...

My ex best friend's brother is hot, but he's not part of my fantasy life I have planned

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My ex best friend and I became best friends the second day of sophomore year (about 3.5 years ago). And a year and a half after we established our great friendship, I met my ex (who was a sophomore at the time). We started dating and then this ...

He's in the back of my head like 24/7 and it's really annoying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My friend has been going out with this girl for about a month and I really don't see it going anywhere. I sort of have an on-off crush type thing going on. I don't know what to do about it. Maybe I should ignore it? I thought the girlfriend would ...

Why can't he open up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Why is it hard for some guys to be open and upfront about their feelings? I'm asking because the guy I have been interested in a shy guy. I'm wondering why it seems as if he likes me yet he hasn't made a move. I'm a nice girl in no way am i stuck up ...

Would stomach growling turn you off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - This is a bit of an embarrassing question but it's something I deal with personally. Would it turn you off if the person you were interested in had a stomach that growled loudly all the time? My tummy always seem to growl and it's really ...

Is he interested in me? (All comments are appreciated)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on a classmate of mine for a while. At my lunch one of his buddies yelled out "hey (his name) likes you." For a while he was always staring at me in class and asking me to borrow my pens and always sat near me. Despite all of this ...

She doesn't care about me at all, and now I think I HATE her; but I'm still upset that I lost her as a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I was best friends with this girl since I was in the 3rd grade, were almost done high school now and I feel like she's become a totally different person. She ignores me, expects me to work around her schedule and basically does nothing to prove to ...

I'm really mad at him and I rather not talk to him. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

23 January 2009 (?) - My husband and me had this horrible fight about our money issues (which is the only thing we ever fight about). It got so bad he call me a stupid cow. He got me all upset and I slept at a friend's house. He's calling me nonstop (and it's getting ...

Do you have to be a member of Zoosk in order to contact someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hi I am interested in a guy who I am friends with on Facebook. He has added the "Zoosk" singles application to his profile. I clicked in the 'send a message' box to ask him out for a drink but when I pressed send, my screen just went blank....

We are just sexually connected and not on the right level that we should be connected on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My situation is pretty complicated. I'm 16 and this boy that i like is gettin his license on the 2nd. thats less then two weeks and he plans on fucking in the car as soon as he gets it. I know that is all he wants cuz he can't even have a normal ...

PLEASE HELP - confused, teacher??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Basically I am a sophomore in a private high school in NJ. Over the past two years me and one of my teachers (female) have gotten very very close. It was her I went to when I began to question my sexual orientation. I'm sort of in love with h...

I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and I'm scared that I'll never find someone good for me. It seems like everytime im with someone, i keep thinking that they can change and believe them, and always giving them chances. Thats my problem because it is like im waiting ...