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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

After all this time I still hold a torch for my ex...

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12 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am really confused, me and my ex boyfriend have carried on being friends since we broke up our realationship two years ago. It was my choice to end the realtionhip as I felt that he didnt have feelings for me. In the last year of ...

Am I pleasing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - She tells me that her legs get numb and that I please her but she has also told me that she has a girl she goes to and two sex toys... am I pleasing her?...

My husband seems to be choosing his friend over me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I need some help please. I have been married over a year and been with my husband for six. Last year we had a very bad year and split for a short while, he was constantly chasing me trying to get back with me. We did get back together but when were ...

Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Is stuck-up and conceited the same thing??? People talk about me behind my back and think I'm stuck-up but I'm not. I just think very highly of myself but I dont think I'm too good to talk to anyone else. Can people tell that your conceited even ...

Is it the 11 year old that loves him? Or me at 16?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - i have sent this problem before but i didnt get any responses, so i decided to try again, because i still need advice :) When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i...

We're both really shy! How to move our relationship along?

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12 January 2009 (F) - I really, really like a guy who i have known for years now, and im about 99% sure that he likes me back (i got someone to ask him). However we are both really shy, so i dont know how to move our relationship to being more than just friends, so i'm ...

Guys advice! In a FWB relationship and want more!

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12 January 2009 (F) - Any guys out there, I need your help. If you were in a friends with benefits situation with a girl, and you both treat each other with a great amount of respect and get along great, and both are very attracted to one another, what would be a good ...

My ex cheated with my best friend and now wants me back

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with Eric for almost half a year. After we broke up i found out that he went out with my best friend and they chose to keep this from me until i found out they went out for about a month or two. He keeps saying how he really ...

He made plans and then never called me back

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12 January 2009 (F) - hi..i had this really good guyfriend who use to confuse me by talkin to me either all sex stuff or treat me like m his little bro..i mean kiddish but tomboyish kind..i had a crush on him but could not figure out his stand..later he called me up ...

Betrayal... my boyfriend was hurt that I discussed our problems with other people.

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12 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a fight over the fone while I was sitting with a friend (who happens to be his friend's wife). After the converstaion, I commented to the lady that it hurts to see us fight the way we do. The next morning my boyfriend was hurt ...

He disappeared on me... what should I do?

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12 January 2009 (F) - So, I've been seeing a guy for the last few months and all of a sudden, he (metaphorically speaking) "disappears" on me. Things were going great until one day he just stops seeing me. He suddenly became (in my opinion) "too busy" to see me. I ...

She's my best friend & I love her, I'm losing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - there is this girl who ive known for a few years now, we used to be bestfriends. then one day we started talking further, we didnt have a real "relationship" but we told eachother that we loved eachother, she is two years younger than me, and i get ...

Mistakes are numbered 1 through 90

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12 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've learned a lot from my ex, S., and I am grateful that he taught me I could love again. We never made it to an exclusive relationship, and we were dating for about two months. We broke it off half a month ago. I am 20 and S. is 33,...

His age is messing with my head.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been email...

Why don't I have ANY close friends?

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12 January 2009 (F) - I dont get it. I mean Im in my second year of college and have absolutely no one I can regularly hang out with. I had a best friend last year but we had a falling out and she moved away. I know this group of girls, nice girls but whenever I go over ...

Can we ever just be friends again, after having one night of sex?

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12 January 2009 (?) - I am in a serious LDR, we plan to get together soon. Recently, I met a really nice guy online (not a dating site) We began "chatting" almost daily. We had very mind-stimulating conversations and it was very enjoyable. One night I had too much...

If we are friends then why wouldn't she want me to be in the club she's in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I have a friend who I thought considered me a friend. I have done lots of favors for her, and we have done things together as our girls are in the same grade at school. However, her body language says very strongly that I am not welcome to join a ...

I slept with him when drunk, now I regret it so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - About 3 months ago I got immensely hammered (drunk) and lost all my limits completely. My friend had recently split up with his girlfriend, however i'd been single for quite a while. His ex girlfriend was my best friend. I've always had suspicions ...

I want to salvage our friendship

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12 January 2009 (M) - I have this really close friend who is a girl before Christmas we used to spend majority of our time together but after x mas she started getting very distant it caused a lot of rows because she said I was imagining it and I was accused of being ...

The problems are numerous, I just want him to be my boyfriend!

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12 January 2009 (F) - so, i really really like this guy... steve. and there is about a five year age difference. but age has never mattered. he is my brothers friend and my mom loves him! and my brother doesn't care that he and i are an item kind of thing. so i really ...

My parents won't let me have a boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - ok I'm 13 and this guy in my nieghborhood is 15 and we are both in 8th grade. I like him (I might love him) he liked me last year and we talk all the time we are like best friends I think he likes me and I want him to ask me out, my mom lets me and ...

I need help with a letter....

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12 January 2009 (M) - Hi theres this female friend of mine we've been close friends since back in high school about 5 years back we even went to the matric farewell together we always there for each other, we talk about everything we spend too much time together but the ...

I love someone but he isn't in love with me...

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12 January 2009 (F) - I love someone but he isn't in love with me, he just wants to have sex with me although he loves a girl and does have sex with her. Am I just a best friend to him? What can I do!!... ...

I want to tell her my feelings, but I am afraid by saying something, it will cost me a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. Maybe you can help me. I have a friend that I met over the net. We have gotten together a couple times. With her job, she is on the road a lot. We talk to each other regularly. She is the most unique person I have ever met. I cannot ...

How can I convince her to start a relationship with me?

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12 January 2009 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and we have talked about dating a bit. She has reservations because she hurt one of her friends before this because she was hurt from another previous relationship. She had decided not to have any ...

Married young, no kids, divorce dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a love triangle and I need your help and advice.... I'm 19 years old and I'm married so I guess that would make this not just cheating but have an affair... I've been married a little over a year now and we dated 2 years before we got ...