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writes:It's this boy at my school that me and two of my homegirls like. He gave one of the girls' some hickeys on her neck and touched on her, and the other irl a kiss. He always spoke to me and I know he likes me, but he never tried to touch, kiss, nothing. Is something wrong with me? I have a nice body, face and ass, but he never sommited on my ass. That's why I like him. He only told me once that I looked good and that I was strong for a female? What guy tells a girl that so often? He does. One day, he told me that he couldn't hug me because he said that he wouldn't be able to control himself. The other girls' get hugs and kisses, but I get nohing but talk. Is it that he respects me? Would that mean he likes me, like me, or lust me? I want to know.....cause I felt so ugly, even though I'm not. I know I'm his type. But what could be wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Sounds like he respects you a lot.. it's easier with the other girls, it's all fun, but with you things are different, it's serious, what you think about him matters.. Depends on how much you like him and how much your willing to risk. Tell him, stop flirting with other girls because you would love to get to know the real man behind the flirting, grabbing and false smiles.
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reader, Lauren..  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 I guess that he is a charmer because it seems to be the way that he talks, that really gets you. I just think you should be careful as to what his intentions are basically, but since he has acted differently towards you, that to your friends, my guess is that his feelings are more genuine. I think its good that you don't want to seem easy, and I think he knows that you're not, so he hasn't tried anything with you. I just think that he is a bit shy around you because he knows he can't use his usual ways to get you basically.
Maybe just see what happens, and if he likes you for all the right reasons, his actions will tell you that. If not, then you know he isn't the right guy for you, so you won't lose anything if it all goes wrong.
Good Luck (:(:
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reader, Finicky One +, writes (27 January 2009):
Finicky One is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you, everybody!
Umm...Cerberus, I have tried...a bit...of flirting with him(don't want him to think I'm easy as his friends) but he never flirted using body language. He always verbally flirt. I talked with him a lot. I just don't understand why he never touched me, if he does like me. One of my friends that he gave a hickey to, told me that maybe I'm not his type. I felt even worse, because he even told me that he likes me. Yet, he never gets THAT close.
Lauren.. I understand what you mean. Why would I want to be with someone that touched over my girlfriends? I don't know, honestly. I don't know why I like him. He's not that attractive, but when we talk, he is?
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reader, Lauren.. +, writes (27 January 2009):
Hiya
Maybe this guy likes you, but at the same time, doesnt it bother you that he has touched up one of your friends, and kissed another? It just seems like he is working his way through the group to me, but then again i don't know the guy so i can't make a judgement.
Maybe he is just shy around you because he really does like you, and he doesn't want you to be a one off thing. He might like you more than the other girls and so because he thinks you are a strong woman, he doesnt want to mes it up with you because he sees something special there? Just try talking more to him, and making it known that you like him by being a bit more flirty with him because then he will know you like him too. But then again, theres always the knowledge of what he has done to your friends, and if it were me, i wouldn't want to be a part of it.
just a thought?
I hope ive helped.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Nothing is wrong, I think he likes you, I mean he has no problem flirting with these others girls cos it's meaningless fun, he might be holding back from doing that kind of stuff with you cos you might mean something more to him.
Have you tried flirting with him? or talking to him just the two of you?
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reader, Leo Gallagher +, writes (26 January 2009):
It sounds like he likes you a lot. Often times guys have no problem being a player with girls they don't care about. But when a guy meets someone he likes, possibly even loves, he gets much more emotional and careful.Let him make the first move. Don't be impatient. Keep smiling at him, and he will eventually probably ask you out.
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