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*sis82
writes:I am currently in a "friends with benefits" situation. I'm going thru a divorce and he just got out of a serious relationship. On one hand, I am content with our relationship being casual...I don't want to rush into a full blown relationship just yet and have no problems with jealousy. Problem is, I have very strong feelings for him and cannot imagine being without him. Sometimes I think I should end this for self preservation and because of friends judgments. I would like to possibly have a real relationship with him someday...should I communicate that, just see what happens, or end it hoping if it's meant to be in the future it will?
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reader, Deepwater  +, writes (26 January 2009):
Hi friend. You are in the same situation as me. Pls read my " letter" in this forum and you will see why Iam going to tell you to end your FWB right now!
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (26 January 2009):
 You're right not to want to rush into anything at the moment. Neither of you are ready.
What's your hurry?
Carry on the relationship as it is. Take each day as it comes.
When the time is right, you'll know whether you still want to be together.
I don't see any reason to end it. You're obviously happy to be with him. No one's forcing you to commit so just relax.
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reader, planepocket +, writes (26 January 2009):
Why not tell him you want more and if he doesn't then break up?
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