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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

What is happening with him? does he like me or is he just shy? PLEASE HELP??

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13 January 2009 (F) - Help my friend please.. I told her what I think.. but she what to know what others thinks as well..OK.. she just told me that when she’s on the phone to her BF and she tells him she misses him.. he doesn’t say the same back he replies.. yeah? Th...

I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the uglie...

How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How do I get over the nervousness I felt when a guy a liked tried to kiss me? I panicked and said no because I was terrified I would do something wrong and make a fool of myself. ...

He's back with the ex although he still flirts with me... what do you think? Is there a chance?

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13 January 2009 (F) - This is a bit complicated and hard to explain but I will try. There is this guy I have liked for over a year. He has such a gorgeous smile, big beauitful eyes and he's just pefect in my eyes. He compliments me and makes me feel good about myself. He ...

2 guys really like me... but I can't help looking at their mates!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Two guys really like me and I like them a bit. But I can't help looking at their mates. Their not the best looking people but they've got really great personalities. The big problem is they've both been out with my little sister so they can get to ...

I've read that my first love is in a relationship. We broke up a year and a half ago... Why am I so upset??

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13 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I was feeling a little curious just now about the first girl I loved. I took a look at her myspace just to see if there was anything new about her. It says she's in a relationship now and, even though it's been a year and a half since we br...

Can someone set me straight on how to deal with this guy?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been speaking to a gentleman on the phone now for about 4 months. I met him through a co-worker. There are no set expectations between us because we are going to see where things may go. We do keep each other in the loop in terms of whether ...

Can anyone think of a way I can work out what she's thinking?

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13 January 2009 (M) - There's this girl at my college that I've really liked since the day I first met her. I became friends with her and we've been hanging out a lot, mostly just the two of us but I can't work out whether or not she likes me in the same way I like her, ...

I love him!!! And he needs to know before it's too late!!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hi, what it is... I really like this boy and I don't know how to tell him how serious I am about him, we have known each other for a while but I feel if I tell him he won't want to be with me or anything or he would just get put right off me :( We ...

Is it realistic?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I live on the East coast and the guy I'm interested in lives on the West coast. I just liked his picture on facebook so I IMed him on AIM. He looked like a genuinely good person, and turned out to be a genuinely good person! I'm a picky persn and ...

Weird to be a loner?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and attending a large public university 7 hours away from home, and I have absolutely no close friends at that school! Is that such a weird thing? I have literally no social life there, and I don't find myself really wanting one ...

I need him back desperately.

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13 January 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago I dated a boy, for about 6-7 months. I fell for him pretty much straight away but after about 5 months my parents decided they didn't like him and I was forced to break up with him. For years down the line I still think about every ...

Husband on deployment for 6 months...will this make us stronger or hurt us?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. My husband is in the military and is out on deployment for 6 months. This is our first time as a couple with him going away like this, long ago we were just friends. I'm going out of my mind I miss him so much. My question is has ...

Was it wrong of me to take my phone back from him?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I don't think my boyfriend trusts me. He took my phone and was about to read my texts but I took it from him. He got all mad at me and said what are you trying to hide etc. and tried to take it back. I said why do you have to do that you don't trust ...

Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible for a man of 21 to be under influence by his mother? Let me explain a bit more. This "man" leads me on and I tell him I like him and he replies likewise and than he suddenly goes cold. His mum (a family friend)said that he feels a ...

Why has he not text me back??

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now, but he went away over christmas and got back a couple of weeks ago.. I haven't seen him since then as he or I am always busy. Two days ago he text me asking if I wanted to go to his some point ...

What do I do?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been "just friends" with this guy for almost a year. We do everything together. And he at my house every night. We are really just friends nothing romatic at all. Although I want there to be more, he refuses. He says why can't we just grow ...

My husband's friend is acting like I hurt his feelings. How do I approach this?

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have a friend whose husband is acting like I hurt his feelings. Should I confront him or not? How would I approach it? Is communication the best way or not? Please give me some advice. I consider him a friend also, and I do feel badly if I ...

My aunt always seems to be in the way!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Okay major problem!! My bf and I are very close and at school it's very hard. Every time something is gonna happen my aunt passes by and we back up. It ruins everything!!! My aunt always seem to be there at the wrong time. What should I do? Do ...

Doesn't she like me any more?

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13 January 2009 (M) - well.. this is how it started, I posted a story about a girl who, laughs at my jokes and asks if im ok or if I'm walking normally she would ask am I ok??.. like some months ago.. She would sit next to me in classes generally ok.. means.. she like...

Is he shy? Or only like me as a friend

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13 January 2009 (F) - I was friends with this guy and he asked me to go to the movies with him, so i did and we had a great time. At that point i thought that we were just hanging out as friends. But then he asked me to come to his place and he cooked me dinner... After ...

I like him but I ignore him

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13 January 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I like and he acts like he likes me back too. But then I had to talk to him because of a bet I lost but since I got shy (my friend told him that somebody wanted to talk to him) and ran away. Later that day, I tried to apologi...

One minute he is telling me kissing is too personal, the next he won't sleep with me but he is kissing me and cuddling me and asking me to stay the night.

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13 January 2009 (F) - Long story short - I've been seeing him for 10 months. Having sex for 5. We are not official by any means, and I know he is sleeping with other girls. Or at least, I think that he is. After getting into a couple big fights, I told him that if he ...

Not allowed a boyfriend till 16...

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13 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 And I've liked this guy for ages, he's been my best friend for two years. And recently he asked me out, we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and our relationship is going great, but there is a problem. My mum won't let me date till I'm...

I just want to know is this wrong?

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13 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 and me and my brother's cousin (my step cousin) really like each other we have not done anything yet. I just want to know is this wrong?...

I think our 3-some has back fired on us....

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13 January 2009 (F) - Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 ...

The unsociable boyfriend and the girlfriend who cared.

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13 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a roller coaster relationship for the past 4 years. I love my boyfriend but am skeptical about how he is feeling about me sometimes. He does things as if he cares about me but I still question it. He is a homey person and is not ...

He never loved me and only using me

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13 January 2009 (F) - I am married but had an intense soul connection with someone three years ago. My relationship with my husband is stagnant and he is never available for me, thus, my souls thirst for emotional and spiritual attention and connection. I used to ...

Question to the men re hot chick!!!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Curious on what you all think here, especially men... if there was a girl that you were very attracted to and respected her, would it be intimidating if you were interested in her but you knew she went out to clubs and other places looking awesome ...

What are the chances he'll say yes?

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13 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy I really like, and I thought he liked me too. He would sit beside me whenever he could, we have the same sense of humour, and after our friends' birthday party, which we'd spent most of the time talking, I'd been the only one ...

SuperMarket Fling gone Wrong!

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13 January 2009 (F) - Last April I met this guy at my local Supermarket. We hit it of pretty good, went out on dates etc.. Then a couple months later we had sex. It was'nt that great. He spoke a good game but did'nt live up to it. I was fine with the whole thing be...

I was let down badly by people in the past and find the idea of letting someone in terrifying.

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13 January 2009 (F) - I guess I have a problem I'm just not sure what I'm doing wrong. Basically I've never had a boyfriend and I'm now 25. I'm not bad looking, I get on with guys really well and I know they're interested because people tell me, but I never get asked ...

I find myself verbally reminding myself 'I don't love him/I don't love you'...

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13 January 2009 (F) - Hiya. I've been secretly in love with my male friend for six years and recently he got a GF and didn't tell me and when found I out I was soo hurt. It felt like voltage going through me. So then and there I decided to stop being madly in love with ...

How can I make our phone conversations better?

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13 January 2009 (F) - How can I make our phone conversations better? He lives 45 minutes away so i cant just see him in person every day.but we do fine in person or chatting online,but when it comes to the phone its like we both dont have a lot to say.Neither one of us ...

I am having terrible trust issues in my head, I know he is the one in my heart but my head and heart can't seem to agree.

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13 January 2009 (F) - ok so here is my story. I have known my boyfriend (SK) since 1993. I met him when my son was a few months old. The first time I met him I knew he was the one for me, however I thought i was doing the right thing marrying my baby's daddy. we all ...

What does it mean when a guy gets so protective of his phone..??

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13 January 2009 (F) - When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about ...

I'm bored and I'm tired of our lack of depth!

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13 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year but I feel the romance is gone. Actually the romance was never there, and I don't know how to define our relationship. He has been home often because of some probation restrictions he has a ...

Any good ways to make friends when your 40 plus?

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13 January 2009 (F) - Just a few years ago I experienced a great loss in my life, my younger sister suddenly passed away. She was more like a best friend and my best hangout buddy. These days are so hard to deal with being without her. I have an older sister, but we h...