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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Bullied in college, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attackin...

In love with my boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys...I don't really know what to do...yet sometimes it seems so obvious... I've had this boyfriend for almost 3 years (we'll call him Rob for this)...he himself broke up with me after a year and 5 months..then we got back together...i could de...

What would YOU have done???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I was sitting in homeroom and this girl was talking to my homeroom teacher at his desk. Suddenly, she dropped her backpack, ran to the garbage can, and started throwing up. No joke! It was a very strange start to my day (and quite disgusting). ...

Please help, I'm so sick of being messed around by this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi. Im trying to figure out something with this guy I've been sort of on and off with for a while, a good few years to be exact. I dunno if anyone can help me but I'm so confused. See, I've been hanging out with this guy, lets call him Jack, an...

Dysfunctional Friendship/Romance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I live with my best friend in the whole world, but in the past we were a bit more than friends. I regret it now, but we've slept together many times - but it never felt like just sex, it was always really... loving. I started to fall in love with ...

Is he ashamed to take me out and be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi folks... look at me the bore sitting in on a Saturday night!!... Okay, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated loads before we said we were 'official.' And in any respect, we've done the whole relationship thi...

We're very close and act like a couple but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - So, me and a guy are very close. But the thing is he has a g/f for about 2 years. We both know each other for about a year and a half. Me and him talk every day, and do everything as a couple. We are practially like a couple, but he has a g/f. When ...

I feel like sometimes I am more of a annoyance than a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for 5 years and split up for 3. We were best friends going into the relationship. Now it's definitely not the same. I've moved on and so has he. Which we both are totally comfortable with. He always says he wants to hang ...

I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...

Irish catholic?????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question....

I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I have never gotten what I wanted in terms of love. I've always jumped for the stars, but landed even harder for it. I continually go for the girl who is my dream, rather than reality. I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this ...

I am soooooo unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hiyya everyone, I'm 11 and i am soooooo unhappy. At school there's this girl who thinks we're like best friends, and i just hate her i only have say 2 half close friends, i feel like i have no friends, like i don;'t WANT an of the girls in my clas...

Every day we get a "run-down" of pregnant co-worker's condition!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some advice on how to deal with my colleague.She is 7 months pregnant and all she goes on about all day at work is her baby!!! Its her 1st and i know she is excited but honestly from the moment she gets in work at 9am until 4.45pm whe...

Should I go for it? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There’s this boy he’s 18 and I am, we met a long time back, and we really got on. Gradually we became friends, and he took me out to restaurants, and movies etc…. We had a great time, and I always did with him for some reason. Then a feeling grew ...

Lonely because I'm insecure and don't trust men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 39 year old single woman and have been treated badly by men all my life either been lied to or cheated on but now I'm so insecure and can't trust anyone that I drive men away, I just met this lovely guy but within 3 days I managed to lose him ...

What do you think about this dare? I am upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Theres this guy in my school who i really really like. Lets call him Mark*. He's really friendly, nice and has a very warm personality. I think he likes me too because he hugs me for no reasons, compliments me, always stares at me and one time he ...

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...

Hockey game w/co-worker--husband says its a date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I am going to hockey game with a male co- worker. He knows that I am married and we are just friends. My husband is really bothered by it because he said that men and women can not be just friends.My husband said that I am going on a date and ...

The age difference is freaking me out! How do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There's been this guy that I had been asking questions about lately. He and I have known each other for about five years; have become really close friends for 2 1/2 to 3 years and have started really flirting back and forth since last summer. He w...

Had drunk sex with a friend is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Ok this is a really confusing and complex situation and I need some guys point of view on this but ladies feel free to help ;) I've been friends with this great guy for about a year now and we went to college together. We're both pretty much...

I don't want to be the "other girl" in his life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone. I am in love with a guy older than me(10 years). I am about to turn 18 in March. Something really weird happened yesterday and I hope y'all would be able to help me out a bit here. Since our families are close together,he call...

Advise me please. Should I just get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked ...

My crush on my friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I like my friends boyfriend but I liked him before her and she hurt me by going out with him and me and him flirt a lot and she wants me to stop but I don't know when I'm doing it, I'm just being myself. What should I do? She really hurt me and ...

Best friend & I like the same boy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my best friend like the same boy. but she is not the type of girl that boys like cuz she is a bit fat and tall. but im good look and he seems like he likes me but i dont want to hurt my best frends feelings by flirting wit him or goin out ...

My BF's "friend" is too friendly!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My BF of one year was seeing other people when we first met. I knew he was sleeping with one friend of his and well as with me, but we weren't together back then and our relationship wasn't serious so I didn't worry about it, just used condoms. A...