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writes:I've known this guy since i was about 9 im 14 turning 15 now. i no that's young but yeah. Lately i've been really wanting to know what sex feels like. After a few years we have started talking again and i want to loose my virginity to him. hes already had sex and we've talked about it and he said he would be easy on me so it wouldn't hurt. He might be coming to the farm on the holidays. I don't no if i should or shouldn't do it at this age? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): If u really luv him u will wait untill u'r both ready or the best thing u could do 4 the sake of the baby and u is 2 wait untill the time is right and u know 4 a fact that he wants 2 spend the rest of his life with u. I have gone half way but any further and i would have made the worst mistake of my entire pathetic life.MAKE AN OATH 2 U'RSELF RIGHT NOW!Because 2 all men u are just a peice of meat,or how i would say it a peice of ASS!!!By;Jessica Marnin Cooper
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reader, carljohnson91  +, writes (13 April 2009):
NO you will get messed up. You probably also just want sex for the sake of it. Hold fire and wait til your a bit older! :P
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reader, Bianca4fun  +, writes (12 April 2009):
I'm 21 and it really feels good 2 be a virgin cos am stl one. Wait til u may be reach 17 or 18 & also u need 2 give ur virginity 2 some that loves u cos that exactly what am lookin 4 & not someone that ll run off anythin so u don't become promiscous. Hope ds helps
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (12 April 2009):
 Are you ready and financially stable enough to bring up a child, would the idea of abortion sicken you? What about AIDs have you considered how at 15 will you be able to live your life knowing that you have an irreversible sexually transmitted infection? and how are you going to tell your parents all this? Why not wait a couple of years where it's not all about your raging hormones and wanting to feel what it is like and it is more about an educated choice and understanding?
I think having sex with a guy who may come down to the farm and then will go back to where ever he lives, and may never talk to you again is a big risk, "This guy" I'm guessing isn't a long term boyfriend who will care for your feelings and help you when you are pregnant, or take you to the GU clinic when you have caught Syphilis?
If he's already had sex and is not committed to you how do you know how many other girls he's "been easy on"
If you decide not to take heed of my advice please at least read this article: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html and what ever you do as soon as he penis is out of his pants make sure he puts a condom on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Stop, i don't want to sound naggy or anything but 14 is underage, wait until its your legal then at least if anyone caught you you'd have nothing to be guilty about, i don't know what the age limit is in Australia but im pretty sure your way under it. Don't do it. xx
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