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Saw my husband's profile on a porn dating site!!

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Question - (12 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with adultfriendfinder... says he's attached not exclusive and looking for all kinds of bed buddies male and female, as well as trannies! Now when I ask him he tells me it's not him who made the account, that it's his friend who's computer smart like my husband whom is causing the trouble... that he doesn't think trannies are attractive and that in no way would he ever think of doing anything with a tranny or normal gay or bi guy because he thinks a real penis near him is nasty... so... what do I believe ?

Him who swears up and down he loves me and would never do anything to hurt me and that he didn't do it but that he had found the profile before me and had it deleted, which to believe? How to tell if he's telling the truth... or just lying again to cover up his tracks....

desperate for help....

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A female reader, lena1 United States +, writes (12 April 2009):

lena1 agony auntfrom now on if you found him deleting the history know that he lied about it.

because i caught my husband watching porn and when i said to him the reality and that i found it on history ,from then he always delete it after he watch.lol

i dont know what s wrong with the male this days/

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A female reader, bobbles32 Canada +, writes (12 April 2009):

bobbles32 agony aunthe'll probably delete his history from now on. liars don't usually make the same mistake twice. i think what you found was probably his, because it seems a little far fetched that his buddy made an account and is looking for women, gay guys, bisexual people and trannies and he just knows about it.

he clearly loves being penetrated so him being gay is a possibility, not that all guys who like being penetrated are gay, but it would be a hint that he might be. it kind of looks like he's afraid of the label "gay" or "homosexual" maybe because of the way he was brought up?

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (12 April 2009):

jay12toes agony aunthe could be telling the truth but he could also be lying. if this isnt the first time youv felt like you couldnt trust him then mabey you cant but if he has always been trustful befor then this occasion can be over looked. but if something happens like this again then there is a problem. so if you think you can trust him then let it go... but mabey you should check up on his computer history in a mounth or so just to be sure.

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