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writes:I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with adultfriendfinder... says he's attached not exclusive and looking for all kinds of bed buddies male and female, as well as trannies! Now when I ask him he tells me it's not him who made the account, that it's his friend who's computer smart like my husband whom is causing the trouble... that he doesn't think trannies are attractive and that in no way would he ever think of doing anything with a tranny or normal gay or bi guy because he thinks a real penis near him is nasty... so... what do I believe ?Him who swears up and down he loves me and would never do anything to hurt me and that he didn't do it but that he had found the profile before me and had it deleted, which to believe? How to tell if he's telling the truth... or just lying again to cover up his tracks....desperate for help....
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (12 April 2009):
 You caught him red handed and he is in denial about his profile his friend's my a...!
I don't know anyone who has access to their friends profile you need their password to begin with!
I would talk with him and tell him your not swallowing this bull and he had better come clean as to what he is up too, only when you keep confronting him and make sure he knows your checking every little thing will he become wary and may consider telling you the truth here.
I would be watching him like a hawk he will slip up eventually.
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reader, lena1 +, writes (12 April 2009):
 from now on if you found him deleting the history know that he lied about it.because i caught my husband watching porn and when i said to him the reality and that i found it on history ,from then he always delete it after he watch.loli dont know what s wrong with the male this days/
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reader, satindesire +, writes (12 April 2009):
 This has gotta be one of the worst made up cop outs I've ever heard. "My friend made the profile". Yeah right. So why is he looking at his friends profile anyway?
He was one step away from being unfaithful to you. If you had not have caught him, he would have done it. He's not sorry he was going to be unfaithful, he's sorry he got caught.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You have no reason to trust him anymore. If he had told you the truth, then I bet you could have forgiven him a lot easier, but lies beget lies, and this is what happens when he's too afraid to man up and tell you what he honestly did.
I suggest you two immediately seek counseling.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 he'll probably delete his history from now on. liars don't usually make the same mistake twice. i think what you found was probably his, because it seems a little far fetched that his buddy made an account and is looking for women, gay guys, bisexual people and trannies and he just knows about it.
he clearly loves being penetrated so him being gay is a possibility, not that all guys who like being penetrated are gay, but it would be a hint that he might be. it kind of looks like he's afraid of the label "gay" or "homosexual" maybe because of the way he was brought up?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (12 April 2009):
 he could be telling the truth but he could also be lying. if this isnt the first time youv felt like you couldnt trust him then mabey you cant but if he has always been trustful befor then this occasion can be over looked. but if something happens like this again then there is a problem. so if you think you can trust him then let it go... but mabey you should check up on his computer history in a mounth or so just to be sure.
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